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Aug 13, 2009, 07:07 AM
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I thought things were starting to look good again and maybe there was a purpose for me. But yesterday my "fiance'" texted me that she is not coming back from her trip. I have supported her financially all year plus bought her a car to take this summer trip. She also has my GPS unit, my portable DVD player, etc... Guess I was an idiot and should have seen this coming. I am beginning to think that women just want our money and the h*** with us as a person.
What have I done wrong. I see others that have happy lives and I can't. Why am I being punished? |
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Aug 13, 2009, 07:10 AM
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I am sorry. What did she mean by not coming back from her trip? Does she mean she is not coming back to you? That really stinks if so.
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Aug 13, 2009, 07:52 AM
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Aug 13, 2009, 09:11 AM
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She was your fiancée, and you were her finance. Super bummer.
 These stories sicken the heart. I'm so sorry.
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Aug 13, 2009, 02:32 PM
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Aug 13, 2009, 05:13 PM
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Maybe you'll get your stuff back. All woman are not like that!!! Never give up! I was abandoned by my husband who stole my car and turned off the electric to boot . I was left with no car, no electric and a baby! Don't let her destroy you. I never trusted again! Don't let that happen to you!
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Aug 15, 2009, 01:26 AM
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((((modelcarguy)))) I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know how it hurts and makes you feel. But all women are not like that. It was not right what she did. I know it hurt you. I was married for 18 years. I went into treatment and while there received divorce papers from my ex-husband. He took everything----the house, the cars, our children, and my belief that marriage is for better or worse--until death do us part. I know the pain you are feeling and the betrayel----but you are not alone. I had a hard time trusting a man again for years. I still have fear. But it can get better. There is someone out there for you that will love you and not take from you. Sometimes it takes a long time to find that person. Please do not give up. And even though I understand where you are coming from----try not to lump all women in that bad catagory. We do care and are glad that you posted. I know you are feeling pretty used and abused and you have the right to your feelings. What she did was mean and wrong. I am sorry this happened to you. I hope things will get better for you. Give it some time. Until then, please keep posting and let us know how you are. Sending you gentle hugs if that is okay. Take care of yourself. dps |
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