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Sep 27, 2009, 10:49 PM
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this weekend was hard.
 boyfriend drove me down 6 hour trip to home after a shift at work friday got in at past 1am, all to see dying person in hospital who was like grandma to me. She wasn't very aware, hospitals scary and no fun places we was kinda wantisng to run aways we really wantesed runs but stayed for her and family. Stay there long time no food to eat =( was very hungry got back. And next day (sunday) drove back here nother 6 hour trip. Sad cuz as soon as getting back I did bad thing and feel very sad/guilty for it. So sitting here, exhausted very sad, need to work tomorrow. Was supposed to work today but had to ask for a day off so I could go there. Just so hard, feel numb empty and so so so so sad.
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Sep 28, 2009, 01:15 AM
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   So sorry that you've had such a tough weekend (((turquoisesea))). I can really feel your pain and sadness through your words. However, I think it's wonderful and very courageous of you to go to the hospital to visit your dear friend even though it affected you so deeply - I'm sure she appreciated your presence even if she wasn't completely aware. Now, it's time for you to care for yourself - you need comfort and consolation - do whatever it takes to give yourself what you truly need - warm bath, good food, rest, and sleep. You are a fragile being and should treat yourself as such - be kind to and gentle with yourself. Please keep posting when you can and let us know how you are doing.
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Sep 28, 2009, 06:56 AM
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Take care of yourself sweetie. You did the right thing and now it is time for you.
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Sep 28, 2009, 12:37 PM
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((((((((((turquoisesea)))))))))))
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Sep 28, 2009, 01:01 PM
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((((((((turquoisesea)))))))))
giving you gentle reassurance and encouraging rest
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Sep 28, 2009, 01:15 PM
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(((((turqoisesea)))) I'm glad you got a chance to say goodbye, and thatyou didn't have to make the trip alone. Deal with the slip-up when you are able to do so rested and clear. Until then, please don't beat yourelf up about it,OK? Condolences and hopes for soem peace for you.
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Sep 28, 2009, 02:05 PM
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(((((((((((( turquoisesea ))))))))))))))))))
I am sending you lots of hugs Be gentle with yourself.
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Sep 29, 2009, 08:46 AM
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Sep 29, 2009, 11:26 AM
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(((((((((((turquoisesea)))))))))))) Please be safe and gentle with yourself. You deserve that.
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Sep 29, 2009, 12:53 PM
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You had a rough weekend. May your week be as restorative as possible.
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Sep 29, 2009, 01:00 PM
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(((turquoisesea)))
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