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Old Oct 24, 2009, 04:49 PM
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Tomorrow I will be going to see my father again. I saw him on Tuesday and I hear he is doing fairly well since considering the cancer. As my mother told me he has no pain. He maybe can get to the point of walking outside again. Hopefully, he will get some quality time before the cancer makes him bedridden.
I am slowly coming to terms with this but it is hard. I am better but mainly because I can push it out of my mind by isolating myself. I know this is not good for me and it will come back to bite me. At least I have begun to control the SI again.
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Old Oct 24, 2009, 04:54 PM
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I'll keep you and your whole family in my thoughts and prayers. When you spend time with him - try to live in the moment instead of worrying about the disease and losing him. When my mother was very ill I made sure I said everything I needed to say(positive things). Try not to leave any lose ends. I hope you have a nice visit and just enjoy the moments.
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Old Oct 24, 2009, 06:27 PM
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I wish you a fulfilling, non-triggering time with your father. Holding you in my best thoughts...
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Old Oct 24, 2009, 07:47 PM
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Old Oct 24, 2009, 09:20 PM
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Hoping you have a nice visit with your dad!
Dont forget to take care of yourself
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Old Oct 25, 2009, 02:43 PM
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Good for you on the si stuff (((((leacon)))) You do what it takes to get you and your folks through this in the best shape possible. Thinking of you and them, dear
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