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Old May 12, 2005, 11:05 AM
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We are ( me and husband) worthless parent, a shame to this world, a disgrace to society, failures, losers, trash.

These are his words.

I'm trying
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Old May 12, 2005, 11:11 AM
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Nightdream, don't let his view of things become yours. I think you're starting to realize what he says isn't the truth.

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Old May 12, 2005, 11:17 AM
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Maybe he is but you dearheart, are a caring mother.
Do Not let him pull you under, his insecurities are his NOT yours
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Old May 12, 2005, 03:14 PM
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Dear nightdream, I know how much those sorts of abusive words can hurt, from someone who "should" care about us, even when at least part of us knows them to be untrue. He might be talking about himself. He is certainly talking about his own insecurities. Please try not to internalise his abuse. I know how hard that is but with your insight I know you will get through this. You are wonderful, special and caring..... and an awesome mother..... NOT what *he* thinks/says.

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Old May 12, 2005, 05:21 PM
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nightdream...

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We are ( me and husband) worthless parent, a shame to this world, a disgrace to society, failures, losers, trash. These are his words.

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Yes... and they apply to HIM. You are not like that. Perhaps he believes it. But it isn't true. You give so much of yourself here. No way are you any of those things.

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Old May 12, 2005, 05:33 PM
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Thank you all!

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