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ok im done i have had it this is my last straw im the only one tring to fixs things in my life my parents are leaving find us a house all to me i find ones but its never good enough for them i hate this life i hate this earth im tired of it theres no point its all bull ****

[Elysium]

Hi Sweetie!!

I'm sorry things are so difficult for you right now. I forget, are you 18 yet. If you're 18, then legally you can do your own thing as far as housing goes.

Do you have a friend that would let you room with them for a bit, or could you find a job to rent a room out of someone's house.

You don't have to let your parent's situation drag you down if you have the ability to make it on your own. Even if it will be hard...you really only need to take care of yourself. Your parents have to be responsible for taking care of themselves.

I'm worried about your health too. When do you start your chemo? How is your vision?

Have you spoken with your Doctors to see if their Social Workers or Care Managers can help get you housing assistance? (This is the third time I have asked you this and you won't respond~ Not trying to be pushy, but that's what Social Workers and Case Managers do)

Also, is your Mother's Disability Case Manager helping to find you housing. You said she told you the last house was too expensive? Did she give your Mother an amount that she could afford? Is she helping to locate safe properties?

What type of houses are you looking at? Are they actual houses or have you looked at apartments and townhomes too? If not, apartments are often cheaper than houses for the interim.

Has your Mother contacted HUD?

Take care...

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To answer your question about friend i dont really have eny but one and shes not in a good posiition right now she is running away from the police(nothing really bad). About my parents dragging me down i can only kind of be on my own but i dont now how safe it would be right now because i dont take my medication properly(my own chose do to side effects) and i go in and out of suicidal moods very often to often so if i was alone i might not be to safe not to mention i am very forgetfull and im still in school. high school. Im not sure when im starting chemo yet im still going through other options but my vision in one eye is pritty bad it very fuzzy and hard to see. my mothers disability worker is very useless shes the one that caused this hole situation by not giving us a strait awnswe till it was ten days befor we had to move . and im sorry for not awnsering you I i have a hard time falling all the question so i get confussed because i have to read a question and answer it and then read the next because i cant remeber all them im really sorry please dont me mad im trying