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Old Feb 24, 2010, 12:52 PM
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I hate this day every yr. I am so sad today.

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Old Feb 24, 2010, 01:36 PM
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Awww----sorry you are so sad. Can you talk more about the sad? I know for us when it is the day we are so sad on we try to make new memories for that day. Is there anything you can do different on this day to change the way you feel about it? Sending gentle hugs.

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Old Feb 24, 2010, 01:40 PM
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Old Feb 24, 2010, 02:27 PM
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Thank You Thine and Dps. Aww you guys are great. Im so sad because today is the anniversary of my dads death. I miss him so much! He was the best person i ever knew . I wish he was here to talk to. Im having such a tough time and he always gave such great advise. Hes a awesome Father! Just feel lost today.
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Old Feb 24, 2010, 02:31 PM
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I'm really sorry, FeelingSad.
Just use this day to remember how much you loved him and all the things you used to do together. Remember he would probably want you to remember him well and all the good times, but he probably wouldn't have wanted you to stay sad about it, he'd want you to move on with your life until you get to see him when you go.
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Old Feb 24, 2010, 06:18 PM
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Sorry to hear about your father. I can only imagine how sad you must be feeling. I hope you will use this day to remember and reflect on all the good things that you and your father used to do. Make this as a memorial to him and celebrate the times you had with him. I know this is not easy, but I hope you will fine a way to find comfort through what you did. Make this day a day you hold of precious times that no one can take from you. Make the best of each day and carry him with you as you walk. Become what you want and let yourself walk there with good each time you remember him.

I have said a prayer for you and am sending many gentle hugs and loving thoughts. I know it hurts and I am so sorry you are missing him so much but I am thankful that you have those precious memories too hold close. Please take good care of you. Know you are being thoughts. of.

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Old Feb 25, 2010, 01:28 PM
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You had/have a wonderful father, FeelingSad. That's something to celebrate and mourn. May you do both well.
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 04:51 PM
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 05:42 PM
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Try and remember that as long as you carry him in your heart then he will always be with you..I hope you feel better soon..
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 06:00 PM
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 06:50 PM
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Thank you everyone, Today is little easier , I have been looking at alot of pics and i even watched a home video of him from Christmas when i was a kid. He passed away from cancer, So even though i got sad and hes been gone a long time, Seeing him when he was healthy did make me happy. Seeing him smile and laugh , he loved laughing, brought me back to a great time in my life and how vibrant he was. He liked to tell jokes lol. Great sense of humor, So seeing all that while it was hard at times, Was also very soothing to me. Does that make sense? I miss him terribly, and esp now when i miss my friend(OH MAN , MY DAD WOULD HAVE LOVED MY FRIEND, THERE KINDA SIMILIAR, WITH HOW BIG THEIR HEARTS ARE) but Im trying to honor my dad the best way i can, I said a prayer to my dad and told him to please watch over my friend and keep him safe while hes away from me. YOU GUYS WOULD HAVE LOVED MY DAD, He was the type who would be on here giving hugs to everyone and giving advice. He would prob be on more than i am , and im on onlot lol. Thank you guys,i really love you all!
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 07:18 PM
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(((FeelingSad)))
Glad you're feeling better, remembering & honoring the person he was. You're lucky that you had a great dad & that you were close.
My mom passed away from cancer, too, a few months ago. You can PM me anytime, buddy.
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 09:36 PM
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Aww ! Pysched! Im so sorry, This is for you, I def will pm you if i need to, thank you buddy!Heres another one for you!
Thanks for this!
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