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Old Dec 31, 2010, 11:10 AM
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Uggghhhh, why do I bother going on facebook? It's disgusting, everyone talking about how wonderful their lives are, what a great year they've had, how this year's gonna be so awesome, seriously f*** them!!! Every year my life keeps getting worse with no signs of it getting better. Sorry to be so negative, but I know this is a safe place to vent where I won't be judged. Anyone else relate?

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Old Dec 31, 2010, 11:14 AM
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whats even sad than life getting worse...is when your life doesn't change at all!
nothing new! i am in the same damn place as i was a year ago...no no change not even a hint of change! that means what people might ask. that means in 12 months i have done absolutely nothing i might as well have gone to bed and just woken up in december. the only this 2010 did for me was leave me witohut a mom, and thats it! nad oh how what a wonderful thing that was!
(bein sarcastic here if ya couldn't tell)
Thanks for this!
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 11:27 AM
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I'm sorry about your mom. . I'm used to my life not changing, there were a couple of years I didn't have to work, have no friends, so was pretty much isolated. I'm used to that, I just want to be financially secure like I used to be.
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 11:46 AM
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i'm not doing a darn thing for new years! lol wish i was but i always seem to fall asleep woohoo party animal here
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 12:00 PM
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kiffy so sorry you feel so discouraged.life isn't bad or good, it just is. i hope this upcoming new year brings good change for you. i try to find the little joys when i am down for a long time. it helps me to be grateful even if it's a small thing.
if facebook is getting you down just don't go on it for a while. negativity breeds negativity. i avoid the news most times because of it. and who's to say that those ppl on facebook are really happy? just a thought but i hope that helps.. some ppl are happy on the surface but may not truly be happy from within. that is something to strive for-happy within. it takes a lot of mental energy when we are so down so be kind to yourself. try not to expect too much and then the little things that lift your spirits will have more meaning. hope this helps. it helps me to cope by comparing myself to myself.
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 02:09 PM
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I know what you mean about Facebook annoying the hell out of you like that. I find myself comparing myself to people on FB too. I know how poopy that feels. I've had a rough couple of years myself.
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 04:07 PM
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Same here. The last couple of years have been awful, with my life getting progressively worse. Tonight, I'm going to sit around until midnight, have some champagne with mty husband and then go to bed. Woohoo. I don't really feel like celebrating anyway.
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