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Old Oct 16, 2003, 04:47 PM
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Today was my last day at work. I just had to go in for a couple of hours. I don't have to go back to work. Now I can finally shut my door. I don't have to deal with the storm outside anymore. I don't have to open my door and don't have to answer the phone. I don't have to see anyone. I don't have to struggle in a world I don't want to be part off.

Take all good care of yourself!
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Old Oct 16, 2003, 04:58 PM
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Hmm, I can sort of relate, "never forgotten" ... but, as others have said, you are too special to shut yourself off completely ...

Please take care,
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Old Oct 16, 2003, 06:20 PM
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What are you plans now hun? You seemed to find it so hard working where you did. Can I ask what your job was? I hope I am not being nosy? I apologize if I am My last day

You are staying in touch with us though aren't you? So many of us care for you here.

Please take care and stay in touch.

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Old Oct 16, 2003, 09:23 PM
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Forgoten I am glad you are away from your work where you were
unhappy, I have to say I have been there, and not working there any
more is the best thing for me...... But I do have to say, don't shut
your door to everyone.

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Old Oct 16, 2003, 10:28 PM
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forgoten,

Don't shut the door to the people who care about you. You replied to the poem I wrote and I teared up reading the response. You are a special person with a lot of wisdom and insight to offer. You made my day with your response especially since I don''t share my writing with anyone else. We are all friends here, we don't judge each other and we certainly understand each other. I think the world is a much better place since you are in it.
{{{{{{forgoten}}}}}}
Keep posting and we will all be here for you

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 12:01 AM
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Don't leave here, forgoten. I also can understand about the work thing. What are your plans now?

You know, this is not healthy, but I actually envy the image that provokes.....not having to deal with anyone or struggle anymore.....[sigh]. It's not good for either of us, my friend.

Mary Alice

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 12:04 AM
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I really hope you don't leave us, (((((Never Forgotten))))) = you have become important to me! Warmest regards.

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 01:34 AM
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I too quit my job... that was 10 months ago... when I worked most of the time that helped me...then I quit being a department manager and was being moved from one place or the next at our Wal-mart and I just got pushed where I really would have had a hard time... cashier...YUCK...

I don't go out of my house if there is someone in the yard across the street... I don't spend time in my yard... I only go see my T or my pdoc or my family doc... that is the extent of my going out. I have family that pays bills for me and buys food for me... I got my microwave taken away from me in my bedroom... my daughter said I have to at least come out to eat...Please just don't end up like me... that is what the moral of this story is...

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 02:39 AM
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Forgotten,
YAY!!! I am glad you don't have to go to that job that made you hurt so much BUT I still want to know why you want to shut the whole world out. I hope it doesn't include us cause you are well liked and needed here.

I hope you can open up a little and talk to me. PM me if you'de like.
Big hugs sweetie,
Heidu

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There is a time in life when the old is to be forgotten and the new embraced.

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 07:28 AM
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I wanted to send you a hug too....please take care of yourself too ok hun?

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 07:39 AM
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More hugs for {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{forgoten}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Hope to hear from you soon, we care!

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 09:30 AM
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Oh wow! I really wasn't expecting this. Nobody really care what happen to me in my real life so this is a surprise. A good surprise! ok now I'm crying. Thank you so much!

Yes work was hard for me, emotionnally hard. I was working with mean rude people. That part I'm glad is over. I'm shutting my door to this world because I'm also being hurt by my familly, brothers and sisters. They don't like me? Well it's ok, they don't have too. I'm not asking them too. I'm not asking anything. I just have to stop their mean words from coming in.

I also been backstab really bad by my best friend, putting my life in danger. The one I would have giving all and that I did give a lot. I can't cope with that part. I can't accept it.

I was very sociable. People only had to give me a call and I would had been there to help them in anyway. With time I find out that they were also backstabbing me. I rarely ask for help or anything and I don't expect people to like me. I just want them to stop hurting me.

I know who I am and I know what I can give. But they don't want it. So it's ok. I will just stay in my corner. I'm closing my door because I can't take no more pain. I have no more place inside.

I'm sorry, I know this post in negative. But I want you all to know that I am caught in your circle of kindness and I will not stop from coming here until the day one of you will not want me too.

Thank you so so much for accepting me! I feel a bit less that I'm trash now.
with love
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Old Oct 17, 2003, 10:04 AM
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YAY!!!! She's staying gang!!!!

Forgotten,
I am soooo glad you will hang out here with us. Nobody's gonna hurt you here and if they do you just let me know.....I'll take care of it. And even if there is one person that you don't see eye to eye with there are lots of us who still care about you and want you here.

I really do understand about family. Mine have always seemed to never really be there and when I really needed them they turned thier backs on me. It's hard. I know how bad it hurts cause I just wanted them to love me and care and be "family". I have learned over the years that I can't depend on them and now I know they will never be there. I will keep contact in some form because my neices and nephews mean the world to me. I hate missing out as much as I already do of thier growing up.

I feel EXACTLY the same way "I know who I am and I know what I can give. But they don't want it." You know I am also learning it is ok. It's hard and I wish it could be different but I decided to put my love and whatever else I want to give into people who really appreciate it. I take the moments I share with someone who seems to appreciate it as just that moment and don't expect more. Less dissapointments that way and more positive for me.

Don't hide in your corner. The world is full of good people. Full of idiots and mean ones too but still there are great people out there we just have to find them. Can't find them if we sit in a corner. Look at all the great people here, it's a start.

I'm glad you'll keep coming here. This place keeps me social. If it wasn't for talking here it would be weeks before I talked to anyone but my husband. I am also a very social person. Let's not let them mean people beat us Forgotten. We'll find our way together, ok?

The trash has been taken out and your still here so YOU AREN*T TRASH!!!! Your super groovy!!!
Lots and lots of happy that youre gonna be around hugs for my friend Forgotten :O)
Heidu

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 03:13 PM
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I'm sorry, forgoten, my post on the board wasn't about you ... you haven't upset me, and I am very glad you are here. I didn't think you were saying that you were going to leave here, I read it as you being relieved that you were leaving the job that caused you so much pain.

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 03:19 PM
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Thank you. I really appreciate this reply, more then you think.

Take good care (((((((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))))

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 03:44 PM
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