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if anyone will ever notice me or care about me
![]() ![]() Has anyone ever felt like this and then have someone believe in them and care about them and make them feel worthwhile? |
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Yes ~ I've always felt invisible. I always felt like if I was with a couple of other people, or even in a group - no one could see me because i don't matter. That I'm not important enough.
My therapist helped me thru that, thankfully. But it took awhile before anyone DID care or notice me. That's probably because I had to learn to care and notice MYSELF. If I didn't care about myself, how is anyone else going to care about me?? So first line of work was learning to like myself and making myself worthy of LOOKING at. Then I had to make sure that I cared for OTHERS. If I didn't care for myself how am I going to care for other people? It's all a big circle. You have to care for yourself and others in order to be noticed and cared for. |
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(((((Chronic)))))
Yes. To your second question--not in recent years. Only as a child with my grandpa and mom. I'm with Leed on this one----one must frist learn to love oneself before others will take any notice of them--I mean I found that to be true. If it helps any--I send you out huggies----------- ![]() ![]() |
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