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Old Mar 18, 2011, 09:03 PM
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I'm feeling so bad. I feel like I'm bad.

I feel like I don't deserve anything good.

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Old Mar 18, 2011, 09:15 PM
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I'm sorry you're feeling so sad (((googley))). What makes you think you're bad? Of course you deserve good things to happen and a good life, just like anyone else. This is the depression talking. What do you think is making you feel so down? I hope this lifts soon and don't believe those negative thoughts.
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Old Mar 18, 2011, 10:00 PM
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Of course you deserve good things! You aren't bad. Like Lynn said, it's the depression talking. I've felt like that before -- it's awful . Don't let it tell you those things because it's lying to you. Those tapes in your head tell you lies. Those "voices" that go off in your head tell you things to hurt you. They aren't true. I used to listen to those "voices" too -- all that "noise" in my head. I don't listen to it anymore. I shut it out. All it does it make me miserable and sick.

I have a little trick I play on myself so I won't listen anymore. Don't you listen either. You deserve ALL THINGS good!!! You deserve to be happy. Do you have a therapist?? If you do, please talk with him/her and tell them what is going on. If you don't have a therapist, please get one. Therapy is very important in getting well. God bless you and take care. Hugs, Lee
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Old Mar 19, 2011, 03:02 AM
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Just your depression talking, sweetie! We've been there, so do know we care and are sympathetic to what you are going through. Be kind to yourself--you deserve it!

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Old Mar 19, 2011, 09:55 AM
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(((Googley)))

You are always so helpful to me and to others here on pc...

You are not "bad." But I do know this is a symptom of depression, or of parents saying totally the wrong things/bad boundaries/bad support when you were little. I know that I have "learned" stuff like that myself.
Take that "little" Googley and comfort her and offer her love and support. You are important. We care about you.
Don't listen to those old voices, try to do all you can to send them packing.
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Old Mar 19, 2011, 10:37 AM
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((((((( Googley! )))))))

Cursed depression that plays mean tricks with our feelings!
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Take that "little" Googley and comfort her and offer her love and support. You are important. We care about you.
Elana speaks for all your friends. May good things come to you, and may you be able to thoroughly enjoy them without skewed, intrusive feelings.
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Old Mar 19, 2011, 11:29 AM
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You DO deserve something good. I'm so sorry you're feeling so down. I completely understand how you feel, and feel that many days myself - including today.

I hope you feel better, and know that there are people even out here on this forum who care.
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Old Mar 19, 2011, 04:36 PM
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You do deserve good things...sending the cyber-squad to remind you...



Hang in there!
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Old Mar 19, 2011, 05:07 PM
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you deserve many amazing things ((((googley)))))
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