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Poohbah
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Nov 10, 2005 at 03:39 PM
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Hate me! Hate me! Hate me! Hate me! Hate me! Hate me!
Hate me! Hate me! Want to die! Hate me! Hate me! Hate me! |
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Nov 10, 2005 at 03:41 PM
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Ok, SJ... come on. Take some breaths. Go for a walk around the block, then come back and tell us what's going on. I, for one, like you so I am not seeing the reason why you would hate yourself.
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Grand Magnate
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Nov 10, 2005 at 03:42 PM
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{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}!
{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}!{{{sj0401}}}{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}!{{SJ}}! __________________ ------------------------------------ --  -- The world is what we make of it -- -- Dave -- www.idexter.com |
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Nov 10, 2005 at 03:45 PM
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<font color="blue"> yes you do....
give a *beep*....... or else you would not of just replied to me, by letting me know you are sorry i am sad, and that i am not alone.............. hang in there....... your a good person, or you would not have cared about me........ </font> 
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Nov 10, 2005 at 04:02 PM
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((((((((((((((Susan Jane))))))))))))
We love you. I know its hard. I hate those days when it all seems like a pile of %#@&#!. Keep your focus sweety. Your strong, your worth it. Always remember that. Love, Jen |
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Nov 10, 2005 at 04:35 PM
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I have found over the years that it can be very difficult to get others to hate me when I hate myself. I don't hate you, I think you are just going though a very difficult time, so you need my compassion even more.
((((((((((Susan Jane))))))))))) __________________ It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence, to be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations. They presented him the words: "And this, too, shall pass away." How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction! ---"Address before the Wisconsin State Agricultural Society". Abraham Lincoln Online. Milwaukee, Wisconsin. September 30, 1859. |
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Nov 10, 2005 at 05:03 PM
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can't depressed ppl like each other? surely we can.... I don't hate you. I like you((((((sj)))))) one foot in front of the other... one foot in front of the other... this too, shall pass.... I will loan you my T, if you want... (he's listed in the Rate the Therapist section).... I'll give you his office number... drop my name... does your cell have free long distance? there are ppl who care... but I know it's horrible feeling you don't care...
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Nov 10, 2005 at 06:43 PM
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HUGE HUGS..I hope you talk with someone that can help you turn this around
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Nov 10, 2005 at 07:11 PM
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 (((((((((((((((((((sj)))))))))))))))))))) I love you time0 |
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Poohbah
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Nov 11, 2005 at 08:46 AM
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It is hard to understand why I would be cared about.
When I look @ myself I just see ugliness. I am consumed by my weaknesses today! |
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Nov 11, 2005 at 10:18 AM
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((((((((((((((((((sj)))))))))))))))))))))
dont hate your self please __________________  No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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Nov 11, 2005 at 11:15 AM
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sorry (((sj))) everyone has some worth, and you are included! You have strengths, good aspects of you... I'm sorry you are only seeing negative right now.
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Poohbah
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Nov 11, 2005 at 11:22 AM
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Having a hard time believing I have worth.
When you have a Mom who has never showed you that you are loved or cared for, and then the church rejects you for being gay...well, those are the 2 main influences a person can have on their life and they both see me as evil and worthless. Wishing I could find a way to see I have value...but blinded to it now. |
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Nov 11, 2005 at 11:36 AM
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... we are not what we do. I'm sorry about your mom. Yes, it is most difficult when those assigned with loving us fall down on the job. The church could do a better job of making you feel worth, inspite of their view of what you do.. I mean, who in the church does no sin? God does not see you as worthless, imo.
Well (((sj))) you're helping me right now.. by being here... I'm not doing well, myself.. and it gets bad when ppl on a computer site won't talk to me! __________________ |
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Poohbah
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Nov 11, 2005 at 12:27 PM
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I am sorry you are having a bad day! I have a lot of those days. I too am a Lesbian, an older Lesbian. If you need a friend you can always leave me a message. It is hard when people don't understand us. <font color="purple"> </font>
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Nov 11, 2005 at 02:20 PM
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I understand about the Mom/Mum thing
and the self hate  (I can't see how any T even would want to "help" me GGGRRRRRRRR) (((((((((((((((((Susan)))))))))))))))))) __________________ 
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