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Aug 28, 2011, 10:18 PM
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I just reeally need to vent right now!
I have been extremely happy the past couple of day, not manic but genuinly happy. My psych told me if my mood swings get really out of control i might have to go to therapy or take medication and i think shes talking about being bipolar..... Im in a relationship with a guy, not dating but something close to it and today Im having a reallllly low day and im crying just think about how I dont wanna put this kinda of crap on him and his life.... What if I am bipolar.... ill never have a real stable functioning relationship. I am prepared to work my *** of but I dont wanna put that kind of responsibility on someone else ya know? Ive just been looking at articles about dating people with bipolar disorder and im just crying and having a bad night. He got on and were talking and it getting better but I just have this huge shadow of guilt hovering over me knowing ive gotten myself to deep now and no mattter what I do to try and help him form getting hurt, I will most likely end up hurting him anyway...... |
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Aug 28, 2011, 10:52 PM
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You can have bipolar and a healthy and stable, functioning relationship!
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It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence, to be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations. They presented him the words: "And this, too, shall pass away." How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction! ---"Address before the Wisconsin State Agricultural Society". Abraham Lincoln Online. Milwaukee, Wisconsin. September 30, 1859. |
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Aug 28, 2011, 11:02 PM
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I don't have bipolar, but I had very severe depression for a long time. I was convinced that no one would ever love me and if they did they would get fed up and leave after dealing with my suicidal despair. But eventually I found a man who didn't care that I was depressed. He was able to recognize the difference between the real me and my disease. We've been married for almost eight years now. So yes, it's possible to have a debilitating mental disease and love. It's harder--I'm sure my husband didn't like having a wife who hid when people were around--but there are good, strong, loving people who will love you no matter what. The trick is finding him and not pushing him away when you do. I know before I met my husband, I pushed people away because I was afraid.
Yes, you can love and have bipolar. Good luck. 
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Aug 28, 2011, 11:12 PM
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Im just pushing him away right now and I cant stop.... I feel like I might push him away and he wont come back
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