I feel rather upset right now, I am a member on another forum and have been for almost a year, I was getting really fed up with the place so I decided to find another forum and found here

I thought I was really supportive at my time spent there but going back about 3 months ago I had made a thread thanking people for their support and I was attacked by a member who called me "fake" I was really upset and from then on I had never felt that place was really the place for me so I stopped posting as much like I did do.

They charge you for using PM's and chatroom so I started a thread yesterday saying that I had joined another forum and they don't charge here and everyone here is very kind, Well I was attacked by them all, Members asked me why do I go back there and that word again "Fake".

I am starting to question myself am I really a fake, I am upset that I am crying none stop.

[Trippin2.0]

You're n0t fake! You're as real as your reflecti0n... Please d0n't allow others to make you questi0n yourself. You d0n't need negative people in your life,forget about them, we value you here at PC! XOXO

I'm so sorry You're not fake. You're a great friend.

[unaluna]

Then I guess I would rather be a "fake" nice person. it is not always easy to follow the guidelines here (i had to delete half my message so far!), but that teaches you how to get along better in real life?

Thank you

I think when people say it me I start to believe it, All my life I have been bullied and it is like these people are doing it again, I am not going back there again.

Feel much safer here.xxx

[Elana05]

And we are very glad to have you here, Buttercup.
Hope you won't shed another tear over it.
Safe hugs to you.

I can relate too. I have been bullied as well. I believed what people say about me. Once I believe it, it becomes a habit and I say horrible stuff about myself. You deserve to be treated nicely. You don't need bullies in your life. You need people who love you and who care about you. You have people who care about you on here especially me and others.

Now you have me crying again but tears of happiness, I really feel welcomed here, I really do care for you guys, To be called such hurtful names is damaging.

[ruckus940]

First off I don't think you should be charged to talk with "friends". Sounds like the person who attacked you for being "fake" has their own issues and its most generally more about the person DOING the attack than the one being attacked. Keep the friends you made at the other forum that are worth keeping and make some new ones here. You shouldn't be attacked for wanting to broaden out your friend base and a true friend wouldn't attack you over it. "Gettin' off my soapbox now..." Hope you make yourself comfortable here. "See" you around

[Rohag]

Originally Posted by Buttercup.

To be called such hurtful names is damaging.

All too true...

Buttercup, you are genuine and you are brave.

Originally Posted by Buttercup.

Now you have me crying again but tears of happiness, I really feel welcomed here, I really do care for you guys, To be called such hurtful names is damaging.

We don't want you to be damaged by words which are lies anyway. Everyone here wants you happy.

[alwaysrejoice]

I have not seen/heard one fake thing about you!

Originally Posted by ruckus940

First off I don't think you should be charged to talk with "friends". Sounds like the person who attacked you for being "fake" has their own issues and its most generally more about the person DOING the attack than the one being attacked. Keep the friends you made at the other forum that are worth keeping and make some new ones here. You shouldn't be attacked for wanting to broaden out your friend base and a true friend wouldn't attack you over it. "Gettin' off my soapbox now..." Hope you make yourself comfortable here. "See" you around

I did report the person and nothing was done, I shown my support time after time, I think she had many issues so was not used to people being nice to her.

Thank you all very much

[Flooded]

Don't let what people behind a screen say get to you to much. You know the truth