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Oct 27, 2011, 02:57 PM
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I am tired of being nice and getting bullied I have tried to take my life in the past cause of this issue, people think I am so nice that they can be mean to me, when ever they feel like it. Well this same thing again happened to me on a message board (not here), someone was so mean to me because I was pouring out my feelings, they felt the need to be an online bully and say things that are so not true of me. And I am so sick of it. i am really really really thinking long and hard on taking my life, I am tired of this life Why cause I am tried of being on this earth for people to freely be nasty at their wish, I HATE IT more than you can imagine. I want to be gone cause of this, I want to end it all NOW!
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Oct 27, 2011, 03:14 PM
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I have had the exact same thing happen to me recently, I have made a post about it too somewhere, I have come to the conclusion that these people are nothing they are just "bullies" behind a computer screen with nothing else to do than to pick on others.  It is not the same forum is it? |
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Oct 27, 2011, 05:45 PM
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Yes, Clouds_and_Sun, there are people who "feed" on other people's discomfort and misery. They lie in wait for the vulnerable and pounce. You have every right to be tired of being bullied.
I never learned how to deal effectively with such people. I wish I had learned in the days when I had more energy and the ability to focus. Wishing you internal calm. 
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Last edited by Rohag; Oct 27, 2011 at 07:18 PM. |
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Oct 27, 2011, 09:35 PM
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((((((buttercup)))))
(((((((Rohag)))))) I am very sorry that this has happened to you all as well. You all are so right. Rohag I am like you I just don't know how to effectively deal with such harshness. Thank you all once again. |
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Oct 27, 2011, 09:59 PM
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If there's any kind of advise I can give you, it's just try not to let these types of "people" get to you. Just remember, they're not human. Therefore, do not matter at all and should not even deserve your anger or sadness.
The next time someone starts, don't sit and take the abuse. You're asking for punishment if you do. Just leave and come here instead 
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Oct 27, 2011, 10:23 PM
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do you tell them to back off? that would feel really good!
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Oct 28, 2011, 12:02 PM
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(((((((Clouds_and_sun))))))))!
Being bullied is awful. Try to put these people out of your mind. I know it's easier said than done, but it's not right that they make you worried and feel so bad. If they behave like this, they don't deserve to be thought of in this context. I wish you peace.
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Oct 29, 2011, 08:37 AM
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Whoever said something to you to hurt you when you were in a time of need is below contempt. Please don't let their words overshadow the presence of all those who reach out and try to help others.
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And thou, too, whosoe' er thou art, That readest this brief psalm, As one by one thy hopes depart, Be resolute and calm. So fear not in a world like this, And thou shalt know erelong, Know how sublime a thing it is, To suffer and be strong.----Henry Longfellow.(The light of stars) |
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Oct 29, 2011, 09:52 AM
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yes, I think some people feel free to bash others online because they don't have to deal with consequences, if they just log out. Some people do it in real life too. There are bullies everywhere, in all stages of life and of all kinds.
Why? that's a whole other question. But does the fact that bullies are picking on you change who you are? does it mean you are less of a person somehow? absolutely not! you should either ignore them or defend yourself, say that what they said is hurtful and to leave you alone. If it's online as you say maybe a moderator could help you if these bullies continue to follow you. remember, you are who you are, NOT who other people say you are.... a bullies statements can't be a way of judging yourself
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