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#1
Nov 10, 2011, 05:08 PM
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I have been tweaking my meds for awhile now and now that I finally have gotten on a good medicine regimen by my Pdoc I am feeling more myself. Since I have been feeling better I have noticed how mean, belittling, and angry my husband. He hasn't changed at all. This has always been him but I feel good enough about myself to realize this is not normal and I deserve better. Has anyone else had a "wake up" or realization of reality after getting yourself feeling better. I'm sure my upcoming separation will put me back into a depression but I atleast know I'm making the right decision. Others around me are happy, they think my separation is way over due. Sorry to rant, just venting
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Nov 10, 2011, 05:25 PM
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I can relate to what you wrote. You do deserve better. Stick to your healthy decision even when you start feeling down during the separation. (Yes, it most likely will put you back in a depressive mood - but you now have the tools and a good med regime which can help you through).
I wish you the best. There is a great life out there for you after leaving a toxic marriage. I know mine is 100% better. 
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Nov 10, 2011, 07:30 PM
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"To thine own self be true!!".......good for you!!!
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich The road to hell is paved with good intentions. "And psychology has once again proved itself the doofus of the sciences" Sheldon Cooper 
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Nov 10, 2011, 07:56 PM
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Hello, Starchild3! This is of general importance:
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My situation is different from yours, but I am certain depression greatly interfered with my ability to correctly understand my social/vocational world, a world of which I am no longer a part. Thank you for raising this subject.
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My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Nov 10, 2011, 08:01 PM
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I wish the best for you! Keep us updated on your situation. It's going to be a long hard road ahead separating with your husband, but just remember you have tons of friends to support you and EVENTUALLY you will be happier without him in your life. I learned that the hard way.
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Nov 10, 2011, 09:37 PM
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I know it will be hard but I honestly think alot of my depression came from this relationship. I was too tired and depressed to argue back and stand up for myself. Now I know I deserve better
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