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Old Oct 23, 2011, 09:42 PM
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10/23/11 2:40 pm at work; mother of worker doing same job as me but far less and poorer quality walked past as I was doing register to help cover launches she said real loud everyone heard 'oh that idiots up here'. I very hurt from that point on, very down, i be better dead. i didnt hurt nobody, expecially her. she hates me because she thinks i take her boys hours who is 42yrs old and cause him to be watched and told to actually do work and he complains to his mommy.

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Old Oct 23, 2011, 10:07 PM
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((((((( Ariesmars! )))))))

I'm so very sorry this happened to you. It sounds you understand the situation well. She calls you names to salve her own ego. Can you inform your management of the incident?

What she said was empty, ridiculous and hurtful. But I know you can't help being wounded by it. I know I would be hurt.

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Old Oct 24, 2011, 12:35 PM
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(((((((Ariesmars))))))) People can be such idiots, that is just rude! I would think name calling is a form of harassment. It is a shame you can't just go and do your job and not have to deal with that crap! Wish things would get better for you!
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Old Oct 24, 2011, 06:51 PM
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i just wanna cry to sleep and never wake up, dreams are fading as am i.
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Old Oct 25, 2011, 01:20 PM
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Dear Ariesmars, your dreams deserve you to dream them.
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Old Oct 25, 2011, 02:01 PM
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Dear Ariesmars, your dreams deserve you to dream them.
I agree. Even if your dreams are fading, Ariesmars, they are still there. If they are not, have new ones. Some of my dreams have recently faded, too, but I know that even though I've been very disappointed recently and have experienced a blow, I actually can still have these dreams. We need dreams even if reality is different to them. I don't think dreams are just an escape, I think they are an important part of us. For me, life often falls short of my expectations, but we can partly live in and through our dreams.
Mobilise them again, Ariesmars, treasure them and you have somewhere happy and beautiful to go to even when reality looks dark and disappointing at times.

Also, look at my signature / phrase. I've chosen it because I believe that dreams are an essential part of us and of life and shouldn't be neglected.

I wish you all the best, Ariesmars!
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Old Oct 26, 2011, 07:19 PM
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aside from that. the parents! they are perfect, they dont do anything wrong, they are always right, they dont have any mental illness or issues, if something goes wrong, its MY FAULT! its always my fault!! im the loser!
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Old Oct 26, 2011, 08:01 PM
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the parents! they are perfect, they dont do anything wrong, they are always right, they dont have any mental illness or issues, if something goes wrong, its MY FAULT! its always my fault!! im the loser!
Are your parents imposing a fantasy on you, a fantasy of their own perfection that requires you to be the "loser" in the family? Do they need to see you as a "loser" in order to ignore their own real imperfections?

The Ariesmars I know is no loser! May you have the strength to not sacrifice yourself to other people's fantasies.
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Old Oct 26, 2011, 11:00 PM
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ahhhhh...................god help me!!! im gonna snap!
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Old Oct 27, 2011, 12:18 AM
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Old Oct 27, 2011, 02:25 AM
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My bunnies and I are sending you ((hugs))
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Old Oct 27, 2011, 11:36 PM
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I CANT win...struggles are too great! (note: NAC miss you greatly)
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Old Nov 01, 2011, 11:52 PM
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up and down, now im going down again.
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Old Nov 02, 2011, 12:22 PM
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((((((( Ariesmars! )))))))

Was there anything specific that started pushing you down this time? Noise? Lights?
Are you finding effective times to really get out of the house?
How's your car now?
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Old Nov 02, 2011, 10:31 PM
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Hi Ariesmars--may I ask what those percentages at the end of your posts mean?
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Old Nov 03, 2011, 01:16 AM
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im very sad now. i just wanna go home
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Old Nov 03, 2011, 12:50 PM
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Hi--thanks for the explanation of your percentages. I hope you get to go home soon. Wishing you 100%
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Old Nov 04, 2011, 04:32 PM
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11/4/11 3pm i asked mom to go to town at 12 she said at 2pm. 2 came and went then dad/mom fighting over bills i said/to self and wrote on whiteboard forget going not important. i go to basement, dad yells you wanted to go now go, few mins later then comes down stairs and gives me little kick in back and tells me to go! this is why i am a worthless nobody and should end my life to go home
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Old Nov 04, 2011, 05:02 PM
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((((((( Ariesmars! )))))))
You live in an angry house. It's very hard for you not to turn that anger against yourself.
I wish there were a way to shield you from that anger.
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Old Nov 15, 2011, 11:39 PM
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im so sad about many things. main focus now is my camera and trying replacements and replaces just arent working and just making me sader. they claim to be better, but really nothing is better than quaility stuff made years ago.
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Old Nov 17, 2011, 10:53 PM
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nothing to say, not like anyone cares.
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Old Nov 18, 2011, 12:52 PM
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nothing to say, not like anyone cares.
I'm sorry if I have given you the impression I'm ignoring you.
Ariesmars, I know you hurt A LOT! If these forums exist for anyone, they certainly exist for you. Every one of your posts is important. YOU are important.
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