[ashleyswanson]

Two years ago this time, I had confidence in my future. I was about to graduate from one of the most prestigious schools and was sure that I would find a job easily. I thought by this time, I’d be married, or at least have someone I’d love. It took me seven months to find a short-term job and then another offer from another great organization. I accepted the offer but something went wrong and I still have not started the job, and waiting to hear from other employers and keep applying, and applying. I can’t talk to anyone of my friends because I am embarrassed, as everyone continues to live their lives enjoying their work, relationships and availability of all amazing opportunities while I am stuck in one corner waiting for something great to happen. I work so hard and I don’t understand what is happening in my life. I don’t know what is wrong with me. I have no idea why things are not working out and why I am still alone, without a job that will provide me with a sense of security. I have no security and I am losing hope. Living is getting hard for me. Will the sun ever shine above me again?

[Elana05]

Hi Ashley,

Sorry to hear things are so tough right now. I can relate in that I have struggled in the area of jobs and career. Ugh majorly struggled. I have also had those feelings of watching how everything seems to come so much easier to other people in this area. Do you think that you might be having symptoms of depression in addition to the difficult job/career circumstances? Are you seeing a therapist now or would you consider it? I know that for me, the depression made it harder to tackle the job/career area of my life. By addressing my depression, I was more able to "get my fight back" and not feel constantly overwhelmed.
Sending supportive thoughts your way. Hang in there...

[puzzclar]

The sun does shine... the fact that you have found this site, could help you a lot more, and show you that there is hope... Look at some Depression Sucess Stories... There is hope out there. A job will come, and You have already begun your life, don't wait for it, just go with the flow... it's hard some days, but it can be done.

Have hope... I do!!

[turquoisesea]

hey there, just try to keep things in perspective, a lot of people who have GREAT schooling and even great experience/resume are having trouble finding jobs right now - the economy is so horrible it's changing everything as far as jobs and education.... so don't get down on yourself. It's not necessarily a problem with YOU

[Suki22]

wow, you sound a lot like me. I know how hard it is being alone and lonely. it's tough when everyone's married and has kids and no time for you. I know what it's like being nowhere you'd thought you'd be by now. you're not alone in your struggles. hang in there and if you need someone to talk to/commiserate, feel free to send me a message. xoxo

[stan4321]

im sure something will come up ashley

[stan4321]

stay strong, im here to chat if u wanna