[clouds_and_sun]

I use to get a lot of vistor messages but now I don't.
I guess rumors got around here about me That is why I am deathly afraid to come to this site often cause I know that there will be no one to send me a message or anything, you can't imagine how much that hurts and how much that is a trigger for me to be gone from this world.

[2kidsandadog]

Originally Posted by clouds_and_sun

I use to get a lot of vistor messages but now I don't.
I guess rumors got around here about me That is why I am deathly afraid to come to this site often cause I know that there will be no one to send me a message or anything, you can't imagine how much that hurts and how much that is a trigger for me to be gone from this world.

I am new so what's the big rumor about you, and why would people stop writing you? BTW, how does one start a new thread? I want to post some questions and get comments regarding passive aggressive behaviors.

Hi Clouds and sun, I have no idea what the rumours are or were, I am really sorry that you feel like this, You can always message me and I will always listen to you

2kidsandadog, If you want to start a new topic, Go on the forum you want and you will see on the left corner "new thread" click on that and off you go Hope this helps.

[skyscraper]

Hi. I'm sorry your feeling this way. I certainly haven't heard any rumors about you. Please don't be afraid to come to PC.

[Rohag]

((((((( Clouds_and_Sun! )))))))

OK, we last exchanged visitor messages on March 6th. Shortly after that date a combination of family comings and goings and medical appointments grabbed much of my attention. I notice my "Posts Per Day" statistic has decreased a little.

All those are possible reasons why I personally may have been absent from your page; they are not excuses. I'm sorry, friend. Know that your importance to me - and to others here - goes far beyond the number of VMs.

You speak of "rumors." I'm not aware of any. Of course, I'm naive and socially myopic.

Also, I remember you were considering getting away from society or going to its fringes. Are you still thinking about that?

[shezbut]

(((clouds and sun)))

I can relate to what you're saying. I fall into deep funks, from time to time, and feel unappreciated & insignificant. Those are times when I have to push myself to respond to posts and send out cute pics to friends.

I have begun limiting my posts to those who've been recently active though, as I'm paranoid that my pics are bugging them. I'll happily add you back onto my list if you enjoy the pics...let me know.

[lynn P.]

(((clouds and sun))) - I'm sorry you're feeling sad and think its because somethings wrong with how you relate to people here. If you haven't been posting lately, that could be one reason. Seeing posts helps remind people you're around. Also as Rohag said - many members here might be struggling with their own issues etc. I'm usually around often, so I would be happy to have a person who's not even on my list, PM me. I don't recall you having any conflicts here, so try not to feel bad. Its good you're sharing your feelings, this way we can reassure you its not personal. Feel better soon.

Originally Posted by shezbut

(((clouds and sun)))

I can relate to what you're saying. I fall into deep funks, from time to time, and feel unappreciated & insignificant. Those are times when I have to push myself to respond to posts and send out cute pics to friends.

I have begun limiting my posts to those who've been recently active though, as I'm paranoid that my pics are bugging them. I'll happily add you back onto my list if you enjoy the pics...let me know.

I really relate to that so much I think I am quite annoying with this.