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Sep 05, 2012, 02:46 AM
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I'm still not sure on the benefits of this site. My posts have not gone up and my horrible rumination continues. I have horrible feelings of bitterness and anger and find it hard to forgive and forget some past hurts. People tell me to let go. I know that but it's like my mind is out of control and won't let go. I used to be such a peaceful and happy person
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Sep 05, 2012, 02:51 AM
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I just noticed I had some comments from my first post, thank you all so much.
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Sep 05, 2012, 03:39 AM
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Hi Tony and welcome to PC
 Your first 5 posts will need to be approved by a Moderator now you have past your first 5 posts you are ok, I have found this forum to be a great support to me and I hope that you do too. I hope to see you around the forums 
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Sep 05, 2012, 05:42 AM
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"just let it go" advice comes from people who do not really understand what is going on or how to deal with it. I think just the fact that you are on this site and recognizing your problem represents you are a strong person. You are trying to find help and answers on how to deal. Stay strong. I know what you are going thru. I'm also looking for answers.
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Sep 05, 2012, 07:57 AM
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You know what? ""Resentment is the poison I take to kill you." That's what you're doing. You're killing yourself with all this anger and bitterness.
The people that you're angry & feel bitterness towards probably don't even know it, and if they do, they don't care. So you're living with it ALONE. And they have places in your head, RENT FREE. Why allow that when there's nothing you can do about it? Why live like that when you dont' have to? Why kill yourself over this garbage when it's easier to just PERHAPS give it to God. Ask Him to take it. After I got divorced, my ex stalked me, said horrible things to me, etc. Did I hate him or get angry with him? No. I actually felt pity for him, and just let it go. It just wasn't worth it to me. I couldn't upset myself like that because I just plain didn't need that kind of drama. I hope this makes sense to you. Sometimes I don't word things properly. But I wish you the very best and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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