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#1
Nov 02, 2012, 01:44 AM
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It never fails. I get back on my feet, feel good, and POW! here comes the next blow.
We now have ten days to come up with $7500 or we're going to lose our house. And that's just part of the problem. It never fails.
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 carebirdy, LiveThroughThis, Shadow-world, TerryL
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Nov 02, 2012, 08:59 AM
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my husband got drunk last night because of this. he talked about blowing his brains out. he's asleep now, but i'm not sure if i should let it go, or have him evaluated. I'm leaning more towards evaluated. he's not a violent man, and he usually doesn't believe in suicide. but last night he made me nervous. we don't have any guns, nor do we have money to get one. but who knows.
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As she draws her final breath Just beyond the door he'll find her Taking her hand he softly says For the first time you can open your eyes And see the world without your sorrow Where no one knows the pain you left behind And all the peace you could never find Is waiting there to hold and keep you Welcome to the first day of your life Just open up your eyes as I lay you down tonight Safe on the other side No more tears to cry |
| LiveThroughThis, tigerlily84
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Nov 02, 2012, 09:28 AM
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Wow -- that's a lot of money to have to come up with in 10 days. Won't the bank work with you? Have you tried talking with them? Banks do NOT like to foreclose on houses -- they don't like to take them back! Perhaps if you had a talk with them, arrangement could be made to better suit your situation.
Try talking to them. Maybe they'll be "nice" and work with you. It's possible. And it's worth a try. I'd go down there in person, instead of just calling. And don't wear anything expensive. LOL Hugs, Lee 
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Nov 02, 2012, 11:55 AM
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Do you have a gun in your house? Does your husband have easy access to a gun some other place? If so, maybe get rid of it for now. I know my partner would say things like this from time to time and I finally explained to him the impact it had on me. Now he understands it's not something just to joke about around me.
Are there any advocacy groups you can go to? There are non-profits out there to help people try to save their houses. |
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Nov 03, 2012, 12:26 AM
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Maybe you can try contacting the United Way? They might be able to help or point you to advocacy groups that can. http://www.unitedway.org/
Regarding your husband, I really cannot advise you there. I sincerely hope that the comments he made were not serious. Talk to him and if he needs to be evaluated then so be it. |
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Nov 03, 2012, 01:13 AM
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we dont have a gun. but now i don't care anymore anyway. i just found his profile on a dating website. which has happened before. he's tryingt o make excuses.
i don't know what im' going to do now. i don't make enough money to support myself and the kids. right now i feel like someone just punched me in the stomach. i was feeling so good, and now it's all down the drain again. how am i supposed to trust him again? what the hell is happening with my life?????
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As she draws her final breath Just beyond the door he'll find her Taking her hand he softly says For the first time you can open your eyes And see the world without your sorrow Where no one knows the pain you left behind And all the peace you could never find Is waiting there to hold and keep you Welcome to the first day of your life Just open up your eyes as I lay you down tonight Safe on the other side No more tears to cry |
| carebirdy, Shadow-world, tigerlily84
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Nov 03, 2012, 05:51 PM
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Wow.
 Whenwillitend, so much is going now, and at a time when you are especially fragile. I believe you need active support. Do you feel up to giving your treatment folks a call? 
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Nov 03, 2012, 11:55 PM
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I called 911 on him last night. They put him on an M1.
Things are so very difficult right now. I went back to the hospital today to bring my husband some clothes. It felt strange being back there, but with shoes and actual clothes. My husband has the same doctor I did last week.
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As she draws her final breath Just beyond the door he'll find her Taking her hand he softly says For the first time you can open your eyes And see the world without your sorrow Where no one knows the pain you left behind And all the peace you could never find Is waiting there to hold and keep you Welcome to the first day of your life Just open up your eyes as I lay you down tonight Safe on the other side No more tears to cry |
| Rohag, TerryL
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