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Apr 30, 2013, 07:48 PM
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My boyfriend just broke up with me today. I don't even really talking about it. It's just killing me though. This was the last thing I needed.
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 Anonymous33180, montanan4ever, optimize990h, Patandorf, shortandcute
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Apr 30, 2013, 07:56 PM
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Sorry I can't offer you something that will relieve your feelings. Just dropped by to write I understand.
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I get fed, don't worry.   (Buddy putting in his 2bits worth)
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Apr 30, 2013, 07:59 PM
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I'm really sorry to hear this ArmyGirl, I know how hard this is and you must feel so awful. I don't know what else to say. I've been used and dumped, I sympathize with you. I hope you can talk about it soon and get your feelings out.
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Apr 30, 2013, 08:01 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that.
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#5
Apr 30, 2013, 09:44 PM
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I'm just not sure what to do now. I feel like I pushed him away. I got so depressed and I never really showed him any affection. It's pretty much my fault
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May 01, 2013, 12:45 AM
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Hi ArmyGirl,
this is sad news. I'm sending you a big hug. Wish I could do more. But I can listen, too. Please post your thoughts, PM me if you like, and just try to take a bit of care. This is tough times, I know it. If possible please try not to blame, there's no fault. At the same time you feel you couldn't give him enough affection, he isn't hanging in there with you right now. Relationships are not simple. You've both simply been doing your best. This is just my perspective, and of course I hardly know you. Please ignore it if it doesn't sit well with you or seem to make sense for your situation. We are here for you, don't forget it Sending hugs Grace |
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May 01, 2013, 10:38 AM
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I've been there and it is a hard spot to be in. With depression you get the urge to push everyone and isolate. I also have an intense fear of opening up about it and letting people help me. I think my depression ruined my releationship too, but only time will tell. Have you tried to seek help? Maybe meds or therapy to help combat the symptoms. My antidepressants I take right now don't make me feel any happier, but at least I have energy and don't have a lot of the fatigue I had without them. Therapy can also give you new ways to think about things so everything doesn't become so overwhelming. If you want someone to vent to or talk to feel free to message me. I hope you feel better soon.
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May 01, 2013, 03:51 PM
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I hope you feel better soon. I know how this feels.
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May 01, 2013, 03:57 PM
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It's hard cause I really did love him even though I may not have shown it well.
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May 01, 2013, 04:09 PM
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There are different ways to show love. It not just about kissing, hugs and sex. Being there for people, showing conern, being honest, talking are all ways to show you love someone.
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May 01, 2013, 04:16 PM
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I guess I was a bit emotionally reserved as well. It was very rare that I'd accept his invitation to out.
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