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Old May 18, 2013, 09:23 AM
little doky little doky is offline
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Im a student major in psychology,my dream is becoming a psychological counselor.Now im prepering for my postgraduate entrance exam,i broke up with my girl friend yesterday,maybe i dont have enough time to keep company with her ,i love her pretty much ,she's beautiful ,outgoing ,she is the girl many guys dreams of ,i know some guys want to pick up her ,i have peeped her cellphone massage,seems like some guys (may be very affluent actually)often flirt with her ,she promise that she only loves me ,but i just dont have sense of security at all .i have thought over and over again about this relationship,i just cant give up her, everytime we have a qurrel ,i always be the first one to compromise.i had enough for that . seems a little contradictive right? i just cant figure out why ,how ironic i am .want to be a counselor,but i just drowned in my own problem .
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Old May 18, 2013, 10:36 AM
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I feel that. Even if youre going to be a counselor youre still going to be a human so you will feel things, lots of things, if you leave yourself open to it.

Break ups are real hard. My wife told me she only loved me before our breakup. Wish I could have believed her. What does she want to do? Continue the relationship too? You guys have a lot of options I think if you both really want to be together.

I know about the give/take, compromise/stand in place position you're in. All I can say is talk more, think more, let each other have your point of view but, if you want to stay bonded, make the loving burning fire be the thing that keeps you connected while the apparent division is going on.
Thanks for this!
little doky
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Old May 19, 2013, 07:55 AM
little doky little doky is offline
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I feel that. Even if youre going to be a counselor youre still going to be a human so you will feel things, lots of things, if you leave yourself open to it.

Break ups are real hard. My wife told me she only loved me before our breakup. Wish I could have believed her. What does she want to do? Continue the relationship too? You guys have a lot of options I think if you both really want to be together.

I know about the give/take, compromise/stand in place position you're in. All I can say is talk more, think more, let each other have your point of view but, if you want to stay bonded, make the loving burning fire be the thing that keeps you connected while the apparent division is going on.
thanks for your advise,the recent period maybe a little hard for me ,but i will try to be better soon
Thanks for this!
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