Hearing so much stuff, I'm second guessing myself

Hearing all this stuff (apparently these two gurls said i was very girly/feminine, and one of them was worried id stalk her because i was confirming i sent the friend request for facebook to her fake account (she has a fake so her mom doesnt see it), my friend explained it to her (saying i wasnt sure it was the rught acc. cause of the name spelling and profile pic didnt look like her, and she said that its still stalkerish) about myself really makes me second guess my relationship with this other girl, if I sounded like a stalker confirming I sent the friend request to the person, I could only imagine how stalkerish saying "You never answer my texts, I was starting to feel like you didn't like me so much", did that sound stalkerish or weird? The last time I saw that girl, we were joking around and stuff like that, and it went very pleasantly, this time, I left myself a little more open to giving a hug (I'm guessing sometimes I make others feel closed off or something), and she opened her arms and I gave her a hug. We were joking about her also being drunk, and she was like "yeah what if I just said shhh it's ok to my mom" then she put her finger on my lips (as if she was trying to hush me from talking, in a joking manner, the conversation was what if she did that to her mom while drunk, as a joke) as she said shhh, so is this a good sign she considers me a friend?

I've asked her best friend (which is my good friend) what she thought of me on 3 separate occasions and they said she thought I was nice and liked me as a friend) then when I asked her what was up with her not texting me, she said her phone broke (and kept to the same story she told me 3 months previously over text, she said "sorry for the late reply, my phone doesn't really work. But I'm getting the iPhone 6 when it comes out!" And then I asked her again and said why her phone doesn't work (she gets texts hours later) and she said "no you don't have to worry, I like you" (or something to that effect), but hearing about me being an apparent stalker has worried me about asking why she never texts and saying I thought she didn't really like me.

If she has bad reception in her area, it can take hours to receive messages. I know it's hard to not over analyze everything, cuz I do it too but try not to, it will drive you crazy. Don't constantly send her texts asking why she doesn't text you, I don't see it as stalker ish but it might annoy her after awhile.

Try not to over analyze things too much. She seems to like you as a friend at least and may not want to text back immediately as may have other priorities.

Let her get to know you gradually without being too pushy. I know from experience that the dreaded "did you get my last text?" / "why aren't you replying?" never goes down well and just makes things get heavy. If she's genuinely got a problem with her phone and wants to stay in touch, let her text you. Maybe set a rule never to text her unless you've had one from her first. That way you can't possibly some across as stalkerish or too desperate.

I know from experience that too much obsessing over relationships or friendships can make a good situation turn bad. Just keep it fun and light if you can

It's not reception and I rarely text her. I've only asked her once in person what she thought of me.