[jean17]

On Sunday a man that I met briefly a couple of years ago pulls into my driveway and asks me to go to (1) a play at our local theatre to which he has complimentary tickets and (2) a fund raising event at the same theatre in memory of a lovely lady who died suddenly a short while ago. Then he says that I'll have to get my own ticket to the fund raiser. Now I'm so stunned and slow thinking that I say okay. So now I'm thinking, this guy asks me out on our first date and tells me that I have to buy my own ticket. I'm starting not to like him already. What kind of man would do this?

Then I'm doing a walk around my gardens and hear a car horn and my hand goes up automatically to wave and it's my ex who has been warned at least twice by the RCMP to stay away from me. I hope he didn't see me "wave". He'll use it as an excuse to start following me around again.

I really just want to live by myself and not have anything to do with dating or men. I've tried a few times and I can never get it right so I think it's best to just stay single. I'm perfectly happy on my own.

[lynn P.]

I agree its not proper to ask you to pay for the fund raising event. You can change your mind and not to go. Sorry you're annoyed.

[kaliope]

after two long term bad relationships I have been alone now for a very long time. I just cant seem to trust another man again. It just isn't worth it to me. I enjoy my freedom to do what I want when I want without interference. it is so much nicer this way. enjoy your choice.

[bharani1008]

That really is just rude. If he starts like this then what would he do after some time. I'd find an excuse to cancel and not have anything to do with him.
Take yourself out to a nice dinner or invite a friend to go with you. It's really good that you are able to see how wonky this man is before you get involved. Good for you!!