[dismantle.repair]

In the last couple weeks, I'd started feeling depressed again. It's not bad enough to disrupt my life, but it's bad enough for me to notice and be in a bad mood all the time.
Sometimes I wonder if I'm just imagining it... Anyway, I managed to mention this to a friend, and her response was, "This has been such a big part of your life for so long, you should have a way to manage with it by now."
And that was that.
I've always been there for her, but it seems like she's lost her patience for this.
A part of me can't help but agree with her; but the rest of me's mad.

[butterflybutterfly7]

She obviously doesn't understand who you are. Boo on her

[tealBumblebee]

I get why you get it, but that would annoy me. Because as a friend, she should have at least through an "...but if it helps you to talk about it, i'm always here to listen..." or something. At the same time though, its understandable that people who have not been in the situation can't understand it. Thats where some sort of negotiation has to take place. However, I think you have a legitimate right to be upset by her actions (or lack there of). Sometimes you don't want advice, just a little support to know you're not alone and it's okay.

[dismantle.repair]

As much as I try to push them away, I miss themt oo much... even if they don't understand...
It's easy to forget about me, so it'll be easier on them this way..