[goldmaiden]

My parents are fighting, subtle fighting.

I didn't enjoy dinner, it stuck in my throat.

I wish my parents would divorce, they would be happier like that. I think if you've been fighting for so long you should just divorce. I think they hate each other. Trully, i would feel better if they were apart, as much as kids try to keep their parents together ??

I am lonely, in love with this guy a long way away, and miserable.

[Perna]

I'm sorry you're lonely and in a household with thoughtless parents consumed with their own problems.

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be sure to keep yourself safe. Dont let your parents fights drive you into the arms of someone who might not be good for you. We are here for ya.

Have you considered sitting down and talking to your parents individually? just so yuo can properly understand why they are still together and that way you can find out how they really feel for one another.

its not easy being a child to parents who fight, been there done that! i know how heart wrenching it can be to see 2 people you love fight. try to sit down witht hem, you never know what might happen.

good luck and take care. im thinking of you.

simon

[goldmaiden]

I dunno.

I do talk to them. But Mum says she doesn't want to say too much, because it is Dad's business, also she doesn't want it to harm my relationship with Dad.

Yet i see all their problems when they are sitting at the dinner table, so it kind of helps to see the bigger picture.

I also talk to both my parents, so i get both views. Sometimes i even help them communicate, by telling them how each other feels- they just DON'T DO THAT ENOUGH!

When i tell Mum she should just divorce Dad, she says she thinks they aren't that bad. Yet i think she wants to die, and hates Dad and wish she could be on her own again!

xx

it is a tricky situation, because when both parents are denying that something is wrong, it will just get worse no matter hjow much you help. your mum should have the courage to say to your dad that she doesnt love him anymore and that she wants to move on. but then, if she does love him, things need to change between them. and all this depends on how he feels, if he still loves her he needs to admit that a change is required, but if he doesnt he should move on.

i wish you and your family all the best. take care

simon

[goldmaiden]

Yeah i think they think they love each other.

But Dad doesn't want to change for Mum, and Mum can't accept that SHE has faults too.

[JustAPixie]

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