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Oct 09, 2013, 10:05 PM
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Lost in the depression again. Made a promise to t to not self harm or anything till we talk again. Feeling so lost. Want to cry all the time... Just want to be in bed. Went to an asl class today and had to participate. Wife started telling people I was depressed. It pissed me off. That's not her's to tell... Not sure how to ask her to stop talking for me. Maybe our couples t can help with that. See her tomorrow, tho I have no desire to go or talk about anything. Ugh. Drowning.
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Oct 10, 2013, 03:32 AM
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((((((((hugs))))
really hope you go- and everything works out okay |
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Oct 10, 2013, 08:36 AM
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 I can understand how your wife telling your business would upset you. You're right it's not her place to do so. Sounds like that would be something to address in couple counseling. You may not feel like going now, but I'm sure you will be glad you did when it's over.
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Oct 10, 2013, 08:53 AM
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Sorry you're feeling so bad
I would also be peeved at SO telling ppl I was depressed! Something to certainly bring up at your next couple session.....
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Oct 10, 2013, 08:54 AM
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I know it upset you that your wife blabbed about your business. However, at least she is aknowlegding in some way what is going on. It's worse when you live with a king of denial like I do. However, I hope she isn't blabbing about being in couple's therapy too. Maybe you need to have a "privacy" and "dignity" talk with her, maybe with the therapist present.
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Oct 10, 2013, 09:34 AM
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I'm sorry you're feeling so down. I've just come up for air after drowning for 6 months. Your wife should not have done that. My husband shares nothing about my condition, not even with his family.
I hope you feel better! |
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Oct 10, 2013, 10:32 AM
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I don't know how to tell her it upset me without making her feel bad, so I think I will leave it for our session with J today... hope I can figure out a safe way to say it... thanks all. It's helpful to see that I am not just being overly-sensitive to that (because sometimes I feel like I am).
I keep my inner struggles very private most of the time, and have trouble talking about it with people I am close to, forget about random people... it's n.o.t.b... |
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