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Oct 30, 2006, 08:19 PM
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I don't usually do stuff like this, but if I have any friends here, I need you right now.
My sis and BIL went home around 3:45 Saturday afternoon, and so here I am -- completely, utterly alone in a new town. I start a new job on Wednesday that I wasn't convinced I could do when I took it. Then something happened that annihilated the one iota of self-esteem I've managed to build for myself, and now I'm a hopeless mess. I can't cut, because I'm on blood thinners and I bleed like a stuck pig from a simple paper cut. None of my meds have harmful potential. I'm alone, and very unsure of myself, and so freaking depressed I can't see straight. If ever I have helped you, even the tiniest bit, could you let me know? I need the reassurance that I'm not a worthless piece of crap.   Candy |
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Oct 30, 2006, 08:24 PM
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You are not worthless. You should be proud of who you are. Look at how far you have came in your life and all those difficult times look at how you managed to pull through. You are strong and you can do this! I have faith in you! *hugs* Hang in there!
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Oct 30, 2006, 08:27 PM
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(((((( Candy )))))))))
You have done more for me than my own family does!!!! You make me feel special. I know I have a good friend in you. Don't think that you are worthless. Having you as a friend has helped me so much. You make me laugh when I really need it, and you are always there when I'm having a rough time. There is NOTHING worthless about you, gf!!  Love you, Jenn
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Oct 30, 2006, 08:44 PM
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((((((((((( candy bear)))))))))
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Oct 30, 2006, 09:42 PM
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(((((((((candybear))))))))))))
You HAVE made a positive difference in people's lives here. You ARE treasured and loved and people DO care about your well-being. I'm sorry you're so alone right now and in a new place. I've done that before and didn't enjoy it one iota and it can all be pretty overwhelming and miserable. Please stay safe because I care about you.  Take care of YOU.
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Oct 30, 2006, 10:07 PM
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{{{{{{candybear}}}}}}
I care, you've helped and supported alot here, you cannot be worthless. Take care |
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Oct 30, 2006, 10:53 PM
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((((( candy )))))) i haven't known you for long but i know that you seem to be a fabulous person being in a new town is very difficult i give you lots of credit i did it once about 5 yrs ago just give it time i know it can be lonely but try to pick yourself up and join a group of some kind or something so you get to go and do something
hope that helps!
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#8
Oct 31, 2006, 04:46 AM
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Sorry things are so tough right now. Please be strong. You are *not* a piece of crap either. (((((( candy bear ))))))
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Oct 31, 2006, 05:54 AM
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((((((candybear))))))))...I am thinking of you!!!!
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#10
Oct 31, 2006, 01:51 PM
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Candybear, I am new here and belive me finding this site has been the best thing in my life thus far (and I mean it). The persons like yourself have made my life bearable...not that I don't have anything to be greatful for....but unless you suffer from depression you just don't know what's it like. So you start a new job on Wednesday, sit down and write everything you about the job that is positive and make copies. Place them all over the place and give yourself a boost. I am too trying to find a job and believe you me, just being able to go on interviews has been pushing me to the limit. Think about what a sad place the world would be without you!
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Oct 31, 2006, 05:22 PM
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Hello my name is Soidhonia Iam sorry that you are so overwhelmed at this moment, and I hope things get better soon for you. I would like to leave you a number for ahotline to call if you need to talk to someone for support 1-800-DONT-CUT and 1-800-273 Talk. I hope things get better for you soon, and you find a therapist that can help you adjust to your situation. I will leave you my email as well in case you eamil, all information that goes ti this email is confidential email anytime you wish. neohiodbsa@yahoo.com. Take care Sincerely Soidhonia
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Oct 31, 2006, 10:13 PM
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You helped me get thru a very rough time - I couldn't have done it without your support. You are a very special person.
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Oct 31, 2006, 10:27 PM
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((((Candybear))))
I think this is the first post of yours that I read, but let me tell you this. HANG IN THERE!!! Please, I know how you feel, but I also know, that all fo us are here to heal and help healing, and you are one of us. ~~~~~~tons of hugs your way~~~~~~~
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Nov 01, 2006, 04:16 PM
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Hello I hope you are feeling better today Feel free to email anytime. Take care Soidhonia
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Nov 01, 2006, 10:46 PM
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I'm doing better, yeah -- I started my job today, they put me right to work and already I got really positive feedback, so that helped. Everybody seems to be really nice, and it looks like they're going to keep me pretty busy, so I won't have too much time to feel sorry for myself!
Oh, and I only needed one Xanax  . But it made me so sleepy I wanted to curl up and take a nap by lunchtime!I'm still accepting hugs, though.  Thank you everyone for helping me feel better.Love, Candy |
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Nov 01, 2006, 11:11 PM
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Im so glad your feeling better candybear,do you realise how good you are,your sister and her partner came to wish you well,you manages to pass that job interview and have begun your new job on a positive note.wow im so happy for you and i hope everything goes well in your future too x
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Nov 01, 2006, 11:13 PM
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((((((((((Candybear))))))))))
Congrats on the new job!! Glad it went well today and you like it. Hang in there  Lori |
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Nov 02, 2006, 04:11 PM
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(((((((((((((( Candy ))))))))))))))
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Nov 02, 2006, 04:17 PM
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I'm really happy to know that your feeling alot better candy bear and you seem to be doing fine in your new job. You will build up your confidence as the days go by trust in me. I've been there and I know what it's like. Don't under estimate yourself just say to yourself that you are doing your best.
hugs for you
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Nov 02, 2006, 04:18 PM
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(((((candybear)))))
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Nov 02, 2006, 10:40 PM
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hey Candypoopiebear, I don't have any worthless friends only wonderful supportive careing friends and dearheart, you are the best, without your helping me where would I be?
Angie
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Nov 02, 2006, 11:32 PM
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((((((((((((((((CANDY BEAR)))))))))))))))))) I want to assure you that no matter what ur not alone and Never will be though am quite sad right now sigh......... anyway when ur weak then u'll be strong dont give up ok tell urself that U CAN DO IT.
with love carol
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Life is a Journey, Life is filled with Mysteries; filled with colours. Life is a Puzzle, Life is a Rollercoasters, of Never Ending Dramas. Life is filled with Surprises and New fine of Treasures Life is once , So live Life to the Fullness , Be it in Good or Bad times ( Never Ever Give Up ) Coz , Life is YOurs and You can Save Lifes! Just Keep Going ( X3 ) ........ Con Amore Caroline *********  ************ ****************************
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Nov 05, 2006, 03:02 PM
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((((((( candybear )))))))
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