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Old Nov 02, 2006, 03:46 PM
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Stupid, unbelievably naive :( :( :(
Not worth much :( :( :(
Gets things wrong...... endlessly :( :( :(
Tries but fails :( :( :(
Doesn't try hard enough :( :( :(
Trying to help people, to be a good citizen but so "bad" it doesn't happen....... :( :( :(
It's my thoughts of me :( :( :(
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 03:48 PM
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Hello I am sorry that you feel this way. I hope in time you feel more positive and reassured and your depression gets better. Take care Soidhonia
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 04:12 PM
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((((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))))
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Don't be hard on yourself. Remember you are worth alot more than you think. Stop putting yourself down. Your a wonderful person. PM me if you need to.
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 04:15 PM
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(((((Fuzzybear))))) hope you feel better soon
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 06:18 PM
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Awwww, Fuzzy. I have, or have had at some point, so many of those feelings about myself. Sometimes it makes all the difference to have someone believe in you and keep telling you those feelings are not true. Can we make a pact? I'll do that for you if you do it for me, and we'll believe in each other until we can both do it for ourselves.

((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))) You're a very loving bear, always willing to share your cave and honey. It all counts for a lot.

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Old Nov 02, 2006, 06:23 PM
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((((Fuzzy)))) I have those same "tapes" going through my mind all the time. We have to learn to not believe those and replace them with the opposite. How to do that-- I do not know.
Take care!
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 06:42 PM
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:( :( :(((((((((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))))))))))))) :( :( :(

Sending you hugs, cos that's what you really need.
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 08:10 PM
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((((((((Fuzzy)))))))) I am so sorry that you are feeling so low. I hope that things look up for you soon!
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 08:56 PM
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Fuzzy, did you do your best at the time? (I mean, you didn't think: I'm going to purposely do my worst.) Stop the negative thinking please bear...it does no good.

You are improving. You do many things "right." Have you read anything by Martin Seligman and his VIA manual, Positive Psychology? You have many good traits :( :( :(
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 09:47 PM
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I agree with Sky, this is negative thinking. It comes with depression. Of course it contributes to depression, too. Vicious circle. You are a good, caring, lovely person, fuzzy. I struggle with similar thoughts, and it's a constant battle to keep them at bay. Keep reminding yourself of the good things you do and are. And keep challenging those negative thoughts. If it's really hard at any given point, listen to those who love you. Believe them.

(((((fuzzy)))))

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Old Nov 02, 2006, 10:34 PM
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Thank you all so much :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

I'll try to remember your positive words .....

sorry so short,
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Old Nov 03, 2006, 12:19 AM
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(((( fuzzy )))) i feel like that to sometimes hang in there!
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Old Nov 04, 2006, 12:51 PM
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Old Nov 05, 2006, 03:12 PM
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Old Nov 05, 2006, 03:18 PM
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(((fuzzybear))) you are doing good stuff.

Even when we are dealing with an issue, perhaps with one other person, that we continue to try to do good, that's the point. If all involved continue to try to work it out, then it's good. It does gives doubtful feelings and discouragement and sometimes feelings of inferiority along the way though.

Look at what just happened with me here at PC...I posted (while sick) what I meant to be a supportive post. Most who know me, read it that way, but some didn't. It was a bad situation because feelings were hurt. It might take more time to smooth it all over. Now I can take from that that maybe I just shouldn't post when I'm sick. (but I'm usually too ill to realize I might be at that point.) Or I can say, I'm doing the best I can, I'm not perfect (though we would all like me to be) and things are going to happen when emotions and people are involved. I'm still a good person, even though this situation occurred.

You are still a good personable bear, no matter what situations happen. (((hugs)))
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Old Nov 05, 2006, 03:28 PM
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Old Nov 05, 2006, 03:38 PM
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Old Nov 05, 2006, 03:48 PM
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Old Nov 06, 2006, 02:14 AM
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Oh Fuzzy, I'm so sorry you are so down. You always are helping others and trying to make them feel better. I wish I could make you feel better!!

Thinking of you!! :( :( :(

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Old Nov 06, 2006, 04:10 AM
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Fuzzybear you give so much caring and support to so many people on here...You are worth so so much!!! Thank you for being you!!! and hope you feel better soon!
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Old Nov 06, 2006, 06:23 AM
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Old Nov 06, 2006, 01:30 PM
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