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#1
Mar 31, 2014, 06:35 PM
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My mind will NOT shut off about something I am alleged to have done when I was a kid. My accuser will not tell me and has called me horrific names.
I can't stop thinking about all of the possible scenarios. T and my hubby keep telling me that these are just allegations and until my accuser can give me factual evidence, there is nothing to support it and I shouldn't be spending so much time and energy wasted on it. This doesn't help. I have tried everything I can think of to get my mind off of it and i just can't. I feel like this is an unforgivable act and if I have done it, then I do not deserve to be on this earth any longer. Now I just wait to see if he can tell me what I did!
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#2
Mar 31, 2014, 06:50 PM
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I'm sorry.
 But you have to know that no matter what it is you may have possibly done, you are still someone worth loving, no matter what. You are worth more than you can ever realize.
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Yes. Jesus is the reason I am still alive today. Diagnoses: MDD, BPD, PTSD, OCD, AN-BP (I don't define myself by my personal alphabet up there, but I put it there so that maybe somebody won't feel so alone  )
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#3
Mar 31, 2014, 07:02 PM
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Just supposing there is some truth in the allegation, you were a child, so either you didn't understand what you were doing at all or you did not know it was wrong. Children learn through experience and a child who does something terrible is a victim themselves. But without evidence this is just supposition.
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#4
Mar 31, 2014, 08:06 PM
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He is making these allegations to justify his own behavior and guilt. You were a child, like Original said, if you did do anything it was because you were taught to do it. Abusers will say anything to blame the victim. Don't own his crap, it's his.
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Apr 01, 2014, 01:45 PM
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I agree.... Please don't own HIS crap
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Apr 04, 2014, 12:50 PM
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Thanks everyone! You are right, I am thinking that I did something when there is no proof! I am totally taking on his crap and I don't need to.
I needed to hear that!!!
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