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Old Apr 26, 2014, 08:47 PM
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I really don't know where to post this, or where it should be. This was the right place I thought, seeing as it's something that really isn't helping me with... the D word.
About a month ago I recorded a piece (acoustic & vocals) & everybody left really nice feedback, compliments & everything! Really positive stuff! One comment in particular shot me over the moon. Since then I haven't been able to record anything. I don't know what it is, I've done everything the same, same clothes, same drinks, it's driving me insane. I can't play my guitar any sense, I can't sing and it is getting me so down, just curling up on the floor, smashed my microphone... Ahhh, I just can't take it, why am I so useless?! ....Really hating myself right now..
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Old Apr 26, 2014, 08:55 PM
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Hi VerseChorusVerse, welcome here. Not sure if I can help, but this reminds me of something I've experienced. I used to play the organ in church. The more compliments I got the worse it made it for me to try to play again in front of anyone. Also, if I'm playing and someone compliments me in the middle of it I then start making mistakes. What has helped me a bit, is to think of it more as playing for "me".... not for those compliments, even though they do feel great and make us proud. It made me, anyways, feel like I couldn't do as well again if I tried. Remember, to do this playing for your own enjoyment. It's great when others appreciate what we play, but remember to have fun while doing it, and nothing has to be perfect. I hope that helped in some way. Depression makes everything more difficult to do, and to concentrate. Hugs
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Old Apr 27, 2014, 08:30 AM
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Hello VerseChorusVerse, beating yourself up for not finding that creativity is probably the barrier. I know for me, the creativity comes usually when I least expect it! Hang in there, it will come back to you! Hugs
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