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Old May 23, 2014, 11:22 AM
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For me I need to keep distracted or I can fall into a dark hole. It is hard though since keeping distracted takes energy that I don't have. Also I tend to count down the hours until I see my therapist again. It is some times the only thing that keeps me sane. It is hard to believe just one hour a week in her office can have that much of an impact. Even though I can sometimes leave more depressed than when I went in it is still a goal to make it to my next appointment.

I need to find more coping strategies other than distractions though because sometimes it is not possible.



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Old May 23, 2014, 02:55 PM
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What actually gets me through a typical day?
Natural distractedness - a function both of depression and the meds taken to combat the depression.

Antianxiety meds (I believe, in my case, anxiolytics are significantly more effective than antidepressants in managing my collection of problems.)

Personal inertia/compulsiveness in following a routine that rarely changes.

An assortment of "projects" I pursue in a most erratic and inefficient manner.

Rigid adherence to a bedtime and its assorted rituals to help my mind and body prepare for sleep.
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Old May 23, 2014, 03:21 PM
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I agree that staying distracted takes energy - - and motivation - - that I don't have.
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Old May 23, 2014, 03:53 PM
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Personal inertia/compulsiveness in following a routine that rarely changes.

An assortment of "projects" I pursue in a most erratic and inefficient manner.

Rigid adherence to a bedtime and its assorted rituals to help my mind and body prepare for sleep.
I use these a lot too, however I do take antidepressants and take them faithfully.
I, also, try to stay in the moment and not let my mind wonder to far into the future or past.
I do just one day at a time.
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Old May 23, 2014, 04:02 PM
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Knowing that if I fall apart I will loose/ hurt those around me. Especially after feeling effects friend who suicided....

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Old May 23, 2014, 06:54 PM
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OCD, my routine is like clockwork, if I don't get up and start the day I get anxiety. OCD has been one of the worst curses to ever hit my life, but it has also been a blessing, it kind of pushes me forward if you get what I mean.
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Old May 23, 2014, 06:58 PM
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OCD, my routine is like clockwork, if I don't get up and start the day I get anxiety. OCD has been one of the worst curses to ever hit my life, but it has also been a blessing, it kind of pushes me forward if you get what I mean.
What a good positive way of viewing your situation. Well done! What gets you through a day?

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Old May 23, 2014, 07:27 PM
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I spend most of my day online doing various things. It's a distraction from my anxiety/depression for a short time until I see how time has flown and I've gotten nothing else done. I also take walks, which actually helps a lot.

Trying to focus on the NOW can help if I can force myself to do it. I use to take meds that helped, but can no longer afford it. Other than that, I can't wait til bedtime.
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Distractions, as well. Music, resistance and cardio exercises, German, movies, the occasional game, guitar, ... anything I can do that I enjoy or can be involved with enough to distract me. (this goes for a lot more than depression) Relaxation/grounding techniques also help.
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Old May 23, 2014, 11:36 PM
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Loud music....and the more intense the feelings of overwhelming sadness the louder the music needs to be to drown the voices out!

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I listen to tones of music either through my iPod or iPhone. Bake cookies, read an Archie comic book, play on Wii: guitar hero, wash my hair, take my pills morning/night, eat chips: poutine or loaded baked potato, was my dishes, write a poem and read flyers.
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Like the simple reply of "coffee" can relate to that!

For me, if I am at absolute bottom, it's my obligations: I tell myself, "If you just do x or y (take care of pets, read so many paragraphs of my textbook, clean the sink), then you can go to bed and zone out." I crawl forward, one obligation at a time, and try to do "just one more!" before I surrender. At minimum, I vowed my pets must be cared for at all costs, and make sure I uphold my end of the bargain (their end? snuggles and comfort, which they reliably deliver).
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