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Hello guys. I broke up with my bff just yesterday, our friendship lasted 5 years.
She found another good friend recently, when i was gone in my vacation for a weak and we didnt talk. She wants him as a best. she told him these things " our friendship was wearing thin anyway over the last year its been more and more boring but.. shes my one friend apart from you well still acceptable but not the same ". And I'm very jealous why didnt she try to solve that problem with me ? what did she do ? she found another friend. She didnt want to lose me either but i couldnt stand that. Was I boring when I was there for her ? Should she talk like this about our friendship with a stranger basically ? I doubt if she'll forgive me anyway if i apologize, I doubt if I did the right thing when i broke up.. any opinion? Ps: I don't know if i can stand the third friend . Sometimes I'm going crazy. Everything since i returned hurted me so much . They even planned to talk behind my back |
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Hi Foxie and welcome to PC! I'm glad you found your way around.
I'm sorry your friend has been talking behind your back. Maybe the three of you could sit down and try and talk it out and see if there is a way to all be friends? Good luck!
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Allie Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder. I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress. I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
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