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Old Jan 08, 2015, 12:36 AM
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This week I got rejected. And felt the rejection.

Now I'm not sure if I'm 'upset' of who rejected me or of being rejected. It's the first time I got rejected and feel it, it bothered me.

Is it because I liked this person or because I finally started caring a bit about stuff?
I have no clue.
I'm not sure and I don't know how to figure it out???

But it obviously put my depression and suicidal thoughts into a worse place then it was. It went from very bad to terrible.
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Old Jan 08, 2015, 07:16 AM
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I'm sorry you are feeling rejected. I think we all do at some time or other. We need others to approve of us and feel rejected when we don't get it. It could be for a lot of different reasons. My fear of rejection stems from my childhood. Rejection can be devastating and add to our depression.

Do you see a counselor? It might help if you had someone that is object to help you through this.
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Old Jan 08, 2015, 07:54 AM
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Old Jan 08, 2015, 10:44 AM
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Rejection makes most or us feel worse. I have been interviewing and getting rejectedcted, The man I love dropped me without warning. I guess I will regroup and pull back and get onto what I should do, It is so hard
I hope it gets lighter for you and something good happens. Being regected makes us all retreat
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Old Jan 08, 2015, 09:11 PM
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I know how it feels to be rejected because it happens to me too often. My heart goes out to you. You are a good, kind, and worthwhile person.
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