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Old Jan 07, 2015, 09:26 AM
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I was just thinking that this is my core feeling. That sooner or later I'll drive everyone away because I'm intrinsically ?? (the whole book of labels abusers have thrown at me )

Triggers everywhere, inside outside....

(sorry so many posts )
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Old Jan 07, 2015, 09:30 AM
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I struggle with the same thing <3

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Old Jan 07, 2015, 09:58 AM
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NEVER apologize for too many posts......that's what we are all here for.....deep inside beyond all the bad feelings and the voices of abusers....there is an intrinsic truth that you are an awesome, worthy human being who adds value to this world and deserves peace and happiness....dig down until you can at least smell that truth and let it soak through you're whole being. I am so sorry that you are being bombarded by so many triggers. Keep posting....
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Old Jan 07, 2015, 12:52 PM
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Fuzzy, you are intrinsically kind, caring, inspiring, strong, amazing...........and lots of other good things!!!
Those abusers didn't know you, right??!!! You can call an hippo a giraffe, but it isn't ever going to make it one, right?? No more than you being what your abusers labelled you!!!

Fuzzy!!!! And so glad you're with us!!!!



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Old Jan 07, 2015, 06:48 PM
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Like you said, drive that liar voice out of your head......
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Old Jan 07, 2015, 07:24 PM
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The world is filled with toxic people who carelessly hurt others. We struggle. We strive. We want better for ourselves. Lets not give up. Even hugs are healing.
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Old Jan 08, 2015, 10:45 AM
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"Fuzzybear" is a better label than all those others - and you have made it so!
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Old Jan 08, 2015, 06:55 PM
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Old Jan 08, 2015, 08:45 PM
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Fuzzy don't listen to the voices of the abusers. You are a kind, lovable, wonderful, helpful good person. I am so glad to have you as a friend and I think lots of other people think the same. You are awesome.
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Old Jan 09, 2015, 11:05 AM
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For myself, I have to stop thinking of things as triggers, and realize life happened this way and there is nothing I can do about the past. Just live in the moment. Sometimes it doesn't work, but that is about all I can say.. memories come and go... just have to keep carrying on. for Fuzzybear
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Old Jan 09, 2015, 11:10 AM
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Abusers aren't trustworthy and therefor anything they say is unbelievable. You are a good bear, so don't listen to the abuser's talk. Banish the thoughts because you are truly an awesome bear!!!
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