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i have not been doing well lately and i dont know how much longer i can take this i have severe OCD, major Depression, GAD, social anxiety and BPD and i really dont know what to do i am having panic attacks all the time i cant eat properly i and there is a lot of stuff anyway what would happen if i told my psychologist i wasnt coping i have been to the hospital 4 times and i dont want to do that again. i guess i just want to know if i should say anything or if i should keep quiet.
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#2
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You don't elaborate on what would happen if you tell your psychologist how you are feeling, but therapy can't be truly helpful if you aren't honest.
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#3
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I dont mean that i would talk to him about what would happen i just mean i am scared of if i tell him what would happen as a result of telling.
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Was he the one that put you in the hospital before? What did you tell him to be put in there?
If you say you are not coping but want to work with him to find a way to cope, then he may try to delay the hospital. If you say you are not coping, and don't care anymore then he may put you in there. I usually slip out a tiny bit of information and see how they react. If they start too strong then I know to not bring it up anymore. With my old T, I could tell her I have a date set, and as long as it wasn't the next day, she would try to work with me and talk me out of it. My newT if I give her a number higher than 4 or 5 on the SUI scale, she is already acting like I am a danger to myself.
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Hi eden, I know you don't want to go to the hospital. However, if you don't tell your T how you feel, he or she will not know what to do to help you feel better. I understand. Sometimes I don't want to tell my doctors stuff, but being honest will help you more in the long run.
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i think you should tell your doc and t how you're feeling, this could lead into a hospital stay anyway, since you not getting better on your own anyway. sometimes a hospital stay can get us back on track.
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Thank you everyone. I really don't want to have to go back there it is horrible. I am just scared and ugh I don't know what to do. I know I feel bad but I also feel like even if they did send me there I would just end up lying to get out.
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A friend of mine says "If nothing changes, nothing changes". I will send a message to the Universe that some new way will open up for you since what you have been doing has not been helpful. It really does sound to me like you need something new in your treatment plan. Keep an open mind and look for an opportunity.
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I know what I am doing now isn't working it is just hard because I if they do say I have to go to the hospital my parents will be super mad at me and I can't miss the school not that it would do much as I am already failing I just don't know what to do anymore I plus the only hospital where I live doesn't have ANY services for people my age like I mean 0 nothing at all so they will just look at me like I am being a nuisance and complaining and then they will be mad at me too ugh maybe I should just give up.
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