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Old Apr 29, 2015, 05:52 PM
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I've tried it all, I've failed.
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Old Apr 29, 2015, 06:50 PM
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Maybe you have not failed. We have failed as individuals to reach you, your parents have failed to nurture those rays of hope that add sunshine to life, society as a whole has failed to provide an environment where positive energy reaches you.

Better not to blame yourself for things you did not start.

But still you can keep trying. The definition of success is to try 1000 times and failing but trying for the 1001st time. Never give up my friend.
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Old Apr 29, 2015, 08:48 PM
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If you tried, then you have not failed in my eyes 2nd what CANDC says don't let the darkness win talk to us if you need or msg me if you want to.
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If you have tried you have not failed. I know right now all you can see is darkness, but hold on. Things do change in time. And we are here for you.
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Old Apr 30, 2015, 10:58 PM
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The feeling of emptiness is gone and I hate my life again! Hooray?
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The feeling of emptiness is gone and I hate my life again! Hooray?


Darling I do so understand, not only do I hate my life and almost always have, I hate myself as well. I have no self control, I do everything I shouldn't do (so the Dr's say) but even when I get on the straight and narrow my life is still ****. Yeah of course some ''runs'' are good but I always know at the end of them the bad times will come. They have for 35 years, so why should anything change now??? Yes, I sure do understand how you feel. If you want to message me feel free to do so hunny. We understand here and that's what Psych central is about.
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Old May 02, 2015, 07:59 PM
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I am done trying. Only faith and family are keeping me alive, if neither of those were keeping me alive I'd be dead. Those two things are my life support, keeping my suffering and broken corpse alive.
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Please hang in there, hon. Things really can and do get better.
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