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Old May 02, 2015, 02:59 PM
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"you're an angel fuzzy and you always mean what you say"
(this wasn't said to me by anybody on pc)
But honestly I'm (still) tired of life
Would rather be an angel, where angels belong
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Old May 02, 2015, 04:11 PM
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Dear Fuzzy,
Sometimes, what other people think about me does not really matter to me. I wanted to share with you that I had a group of friends that were "helping" me, including by maintaining a secret group of wassap to talk about me I was not supposed to find out. Of course, I happened to find out and some of the things about me that had been told were really annoying. But, please, they "just wanted to help" me. I just cut those ties. We do not have equal wassap groups to analyze and "help" every one else in that friends group, there is just one about me. It may be because I am the weakest, or the needy one, in their mind, I guess.
But, just because they perceive me as a special one it does not mean I belong to any other planet but this one. The fact is that it is difficult to find people that truly understand us and respect us as adults.
Sometimes, when people call as "angels" or "heroes" they just do not get us.
But I do not know if this is your case.
I send you a big hug
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Old May 03, 2015, 10:43 AM
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Sometimes, when people call as "angels" or "heroes" they just do not get us.
This is worth considering. There is wisdom here.

Dear world-weary friend, whatever your feelings, they are your feelings and I respect your right to them.

May some of the enormous care you have for others return to you in uplifting ways!

((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))
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Old May 03, 2015, 01:13 PM
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Thank you both so much

((((((( Rohag ))))))) as usual you "get" me

I wish so much it had been me ....

And that a more deserving other had been "healed"

Dark stuff, sorry, much is triggering me too ATM, my stuff naturally. So I'm staying quiet idk how long this post will stay up for, when I'll delete it..

I don't think there is a magic pill that will fix this. A recent doctor noticed I'm "intelligent"... And I know the "cure" for something is worse than the original condition

(I don't have the patience to endure an "existence" with this ****ed up body indefinitely BAD BAD fuzzy )
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Old May 03, 2015, 01:19 PM
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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

this is true..
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Old May 04, 2015, 11:38 AM
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(((((((Fuzzy)))))))... for your honesty. I juggle physical health problems too ... Not that helps you at all but I have some understanding.
I wish I had something to soothe the physical and mental anguish you are living with.
I would like to challenge your opinion that you are less deserving, I believe YOU ARE AS DESERVING AS ANYONE ELSE though I respect your right to your opinion.
Possible trigger:

You are a caring bear and bring a little more love and light into this world which is most valuable in my book. You would be badly missed if you went to Angel Land
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Old May 04, 2015, 12:57 PM
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(((((((( fizz ))))))))

Thanks so much, and I'm sorry you can relate but I appreciate you and your obviously hard won empathy (as mine is (sigh) ). Having been dragged up by ? Narcissists this hasn't been an "easy" road and to those who love to dismiss others with a few idiotic words...

(nobody on pc)

And again the song is playing "they were young and love was shining..."

this is true..


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(((((((Fuzzy)))))))... for your honesty. I juggle physical health problems too ... Not that helps you at all but I have some understanding.
I wish I had something to soothe the physical and mental anguish you are living with.
I would like to challenge your opinion that you are less deserving, I believe YOU ARE AS DESERVING AS ANYONE ELSE though I respect your right to your opinion.
Possible trigger:

You are a caring bear and bring a little more love and light into this world which is most valuable in my book. You would be badly missed if you went to Angel Land
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Old May 04, 2015, 01:29 PM
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Thank you both so much

((((((( Rohag ))))))) as usual you "get" me

I wish so much it had been me ....

And that a more deserving other had been "healed"

Dark stuff, sorry, much is triggering me too ATM, my stuff naturally. So I'm staying quiet idk how long this post will stay up for, when I'll delete it..

I don't think there is a magic pill that will fix this. A recent doctor noticed I'm "intelligent"... And I know the "cure" for something is worse than the original condition

(I don't have the patience to endure an "existence" with this ****ed up body indefinitely BAD BAD fuzzy )
Dear Fuzzy,
I could have written this myself earlier today. Sometimes everything is so tiring !
I am grateful for you to be here, Fuzzy.
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Old May 04, 2015, 02:59 PM
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and I'm grateful that you're here

((((((((( Clara ))))))))))

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Dear Fuzzy,
I could have written this myself earlier today. Sometimes everything is so tiring !
I am grateful for you to be here, Fuzzy.
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Old May 04, 2015, 05:58 PM
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Fuzzy, you have brightened my mood on many occasions! Whenever I see your HulaBear, I cannot help but smile and feel peace! Don't give up. We care for you and you are worth more than you will ever know! The angels will still be there waiting, so don't be in any hurry, but until then, enjoy the sunshine and smile as much as you can! <3
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