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Apr 26, 2015, 02:21 PM
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its abt my life...i mean future...
i was good at studies...since childhood....what i think of my self when i evaluate my self is that...i m a very good learner...i can pretty much understand every thing....my life was going ok...my parents decided to make me an engineer...i never thought what i wanted to do...so i thought i should do it...i joined a coatchng class for iit....iit is like harvard of india....i did well at coaching...faculties belived i will suerly get into iit...so did i...but there were certain complications in life...i was under stress...huge and continuos stress for abt 6 months....i couldnt get in iit...didnt get a good clg either...i thoughts its ok...i can study hard in this clg and may be doi good here...i studied the 1st semester and good gpa too...bt failed in one subject...the subject i knew most abt....i was informed by my senior year student that this happens here....the teachers there were nt gud either...they were terrible....slowly i stopped studyng....i started to watch movies...non stop...didnt knw what else to do...i saw like 3000movies in 2 years....i saw 8 tv shows...played 30 games...in classes i begin to draw...i also started to write songs...write stories...singing dancing...and i became pretty good at those....bt apart from those i begain to think in a very differnt way...the way i never thought before/..i stared to see what is haappening around the world....the gud the evil...the uprising need for money...which made me think abt psycology...i got intrested in psycology very much....i have plans to get into an clg of cognetive science but the problm is dnt study...i draw when i m in clg...i watch movies at home...i dance for 1 hr...bt i dnt study...and i love to study bt i just cant do it....i dnt knw why...i tried to apply little psycology stuff on me and reached a conclusion that i dnt study becoz I m afraid of failing again like i did before for the iit...i also want to draw... write music...write books...write songs...study human brain cognetivity...sing ...dance...bt i just end up watchng movies....i dnt knw what do ido...if i stay this way i m afraid i aint goona pass the clg either.....do any of u have anything to say to me...help me.... |
 Anonymous37868, Fizzyo
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Apr 26, 2015, 02:35 PM
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Want to know something about learning and teaching? There is no such thing as the perfect method. We all learn different, and some of us learn much differently. I'm dyslexic, and I found that during my college years I did not care for most of my classes. I found them not interesting, and did much what you are doing now. I was studying geology, and around my senior year I found out that I hate rocks and minerals. I didn't really know what to do at that point, but luckily for my I was taking a class in GIS( Geographic Information Systems). I decided to switch to it, and I found myself engaged into it unlike anything else I had done in college.
Maybe you haven't found what lights your fire yet. Just remember that failing at something is not an indication that your not smart. It could be just no the right fit.
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Apr 27, 2015, 03:33 PM
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If you're scared by studying and failing, the only way is to do it but aim realistic so you succeed. You don't need to be top of the class, just good enough and when you have a small achievement the fear is less.
I was so scared of drawing that I would sweat, feel faint and cry when I held a pencil. I went to a class with a friend where 'good enough'was enough and effort appreciated. Now I can sit down to draw something and feel calm, or only a little nervous and enjoy it, even though the result is not perfect. I hope you too can find that Good Enough really is enough. 
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Apr 28, 2015, 10:17 AM
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Apr 29, 2015, 07:34 PM
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Sounds like avoidance. Which is the basic building block of depression. When we don't want to do something we seek something to do, and we see it as something harmful. Thus we become down and not wanting to do things.
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Apr 29, 2015, 07:48 PM
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Quote:
http://egg.bu.edu/~youssef/SNAP_CLUB...0164151576.pdf This is a great way to start back on your healing path. I would forget about worrying about your career for at least a short while. Give yourself time to figure this out and to get on a healing healthy path. It's also a very good idea to check if something purely medical or nutritional is going on with you. Here's what I think is the best overall plan: http://forums.psychcentral.com/4262681-post105.html - vital |
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May 03, 2015, 01:15 PM
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May 04, 2015, 02:17 AM
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Are you on any meds?
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May 04, 2015, 10:27 AM
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Depression really does make it hard to do things,though not necessarily always impossible. Thinking of you, you just described how I feel from okay to hell and back again (hopefully
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May 06, 2015, 07:30 AM
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May 07, 2015, 01:51 PM
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Are you going at this alone, o r with professional help?
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