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Usually I spend a lot of time online reading news sites and blogs. I've found lately, however, that it makes me angry and depressed. I feel like there is so much injustice and pain in the world, and that for the most part human beings are cruel and selfish.
My husband says I should just avoid the news. He is probably right, but this is hard for me because I have always been interested in politics, etc. I feel like if I don't know what is going on in the world, how can I help change it for the better? My T says I should become involved in my community regarding issues I feel strongly about--if I'm helping out, that will make me feel better. I do volunteer at the local food pantry and I enjoy that. But I don't feel like I'm doing very much. I don't feel like I am really helping people. I kind of feel guilty about feeling depressed about things that aren't even "my problems." I mean, how selfish is it of me to make tragic national/world events all about how *I* feel about them?
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Because news is a lot like a Casino!
It's set up for the house to win and the player to lose. Come to think of it, news should be classified as an addictive disorder too IMHO! But what do I know? ... I'm just a Pfrog! Ribbit! ![]() |
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Hi Krm. Along the lines of what pfrog said, I've read reports on studies that say that negative news draws a greater number of viewers/readers, so that affects what the media gives us.
It sounds like you're already doing one thing that I do - avoid video and TV news. I find that much more distressing than reading. Sometimes I have to curb my news consumption because of the effect it has on my depression. Part of me feels like I'm wimping out when I do this, but I can definitely tell that it makes a difference. I have friends and relatives who don't have any diagnosed mood disorders who have told me over the last year that they have cut back on their news viewing/reading because it was distressing them. I personally think that maybe the news has been more distressing than usual for the last year or so. Sometimes I just read headlines and not the whole article. I'm not really informed when I do that, but at least I know something has happened. I also try to add some light-hearted content. I like Apartment Therapy's e-mail newsletters and I read/look at amusing animal pics/stories for a mood lift. It seems sort of like ducking out of being a responsible adult when I do this, but I don't like what happens to my mood when I consume as much news as I really want to. What can ya do? ![]() |
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I completely agree with how u feel. I have to limit the news and even some movies and books. It sucks but I just don't like how it makes me feel in the long run.
Have you tried mentoring a teenager or something in education? I volunteered as a big sister in the big brother/but sister organization and I mentored a girl for 4 years. I found it really valuable. Hang in there and try to find u can do to throw yourself into. Hugs |
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![]() I know I felt my heart drop when my father said that the show I was watching called "Alaskan Bush People" was staged. I mean, I really wanted to believe that there were people out there surviving in the middle of a cold Alaskan forest. I think it feeds my desire for "family togetherness" ![]() I've taken to listening to about 30 minutes of morning news, then classical music for the rest of the day... There's only so much a person can handle. ![]()
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Thanks everyone for the support. I've been trying to mix light-hearted stuff with the news I read. Here's a funny one I found:
44 Facts To Help You Make It Through Today ![]()
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I think what you are feeling is kinda normal and kinda *intentional* by the media. I think they like to create drama, conflict, injustice - to sell papers. And personally - I think what they are reporting on is total crap.
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I stopped reading/watching the news a long time ago. All it did was get me upset over things I had no control over & couldn't do anything about. I don't need to know about some sick monster keeping women chained up for years or what's going on in the Middle East. As someone with MDD & GAD, I have to guard my peace of mind & making myself worse by reading about those kinds of things benefits no one. That is just me, however.
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I know the feeling. I can't watch the news or read newspapers or anything like that anymore because everything just seems so negative and it makes me have very little faith in humanity as a whole. Sometimes I go into an existential crisis because I am questioning the fate of humanity if things continue the way they are now.
I can't watch the news without going into a rage or crying and swearing at the television or at whoever is nearby. Now I try to limit how much I watch the news...enough to have a vague sense of what is going on but not enough to make my anxiety and depression even worse. I think it may be helpful to figure out if you can set a limit on how much you watch the news, etc... or to figure out if one specific thing in the news triggers you.
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News fast is something that Andrew Weil recommended in his 8 Weeks to Optimum Health. I think that's a pretty good idea, and I go on those news fasts regularly. Good luck.
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