[Fuzzybear]

Possible trigger:

Have you planned the songs for your funeral? I have.
I for one will rejoice when I'm gone from this world although I will miss many I've known and loved...
PS to the many who care, don't worry, I'm "safe"

[BBB2]

I started to research how funerals are planned, how much they cost, etc. I didn't get around to thinking about songs.

I would be very sad to not see you around on this forum anymore. Please continue to stay safe.

i used to not want a funeral, because i didn't feel anyone would show up- or that i'd be missed.

but in recent years i've come up with songs i'd like to be played, and things that i'd hope people would say about me. i also want to attend my own funeral (sort of a practice run), so that i know everything's in place, and i can hear for myself what is said about me

[Frankbtl]

Hi Fuzzy,

I'm sorry you're struggling
And it can sometimes come naturally to think about things, what if.........
But maybe try planning the other way around too..........e.g. a few lists, right there, of songs which may help slightly if things are hurting...........some "go to" songs which might lift your mood just a bit if you're hurting/struggling e.g. I know you like piano music but maybe there are other songs you can add as well that could help. Although maybe you've already done that??
And I know sometimes very little, including music, makes much of a difference (if any!!) but maybe the planning of things that might help a bit right now??
And hopefully talking with us might be in those plans (??)...........because if there's just a tiny chance we may be able to help.........we care, and we're here for you

Alison

[waterknob1234]

Fuzzybear I am another person who would miss you dearly if you were not on this forum. I have to confess I have rehearsed my funeral in my head, and a song I like is "Be Still and Know that I am God" by Hillsong. I would like that song played at my funeral.

[moodycow]

yes i have planed most of it including the songs.