[hoanglongmit]

So I just started high school a few months ago and I was so excited. My best friend (from secondary school) and I were assigned in a same class. The first few weeks was ok. But then my friend started to ignore me, and over time, we were not close anymore then I realized he dumped me for a new group of guys who are cooler than me! I am so depressing right now how can this happen?? It's wierd to say this but I still miss him and care about him. And no that's not all. I recently have a crush on this girl and just realized she had already got a boyfriend! Another thing... My parrents always yell at me but this was ok because of the fun I had at secondary school is enough not to make me feel miserable. But now, I feel sad all day long. I am the person that laugh all the time and don't want anyone to know if I'm sad. I still trying to socialize and laugh but it isn't natural like before...
Sorry for my bad English but I get so depressed. This is too much for a 15 years old like me. What should I do?? :'(

[Fading Star]

Well, people come in and out in our life. Don't be so dependent on your friend. There are a lot of people out there to be your friends. Life goes on. Find new friends. Don't think about it anymore. It's time to move forward. I know it's hard but that's part of life. like i said in the beginning, people come in and out in our lives. Who will left is the true one.

[hoanglongmit]

wow. I'm new here and I just look through a few depression post... I feel so sorry for you guys... I guess my story is just a little proplem in this life. Growing up is so hard :|

[vital]

Originally Posted by hoanglongmit

...This is too much for a 15 years old like me. What should I do?? :'(

Hi hoanglongmit,

You might want to try these notes:

http://egg.bu.edu/~youssef/SNAP_CLUB...0164151576.pdf

I think you'll be laughing again soon one way or another!!

- vital

[Rohag]

Hello & Welcome, Hoanglongmit.

Originally Posted by hoanglongmit

then I realized he dumped me for a new group of guys

I have seen this, experienced it, and heard about it happening in many places over time. Nevertheless, the pain you are feeling over your apparently lost friend is real, not matter how many other people have experienced it. It hurts, really hurts to be abandoned by someone close to you. I am sorry.

Originally Posted by hoanglongmit

What should I do?

I do not wish to answer this question with a cliché, but it will have to do: "What should I do?" -- "The next thing." For a while as best you can keep doing the things you normally do, the things you have to do every day. Also, remember you are grieving a personal loss; allow yourself time to grieve. You cannot pretend the loss didn't happen or doesn't matter.

Is there perhaps someone at your school - teacher, nurse, counselor - or in your family with whom you could talk?