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Old Nov 17, 2015, 05:35 PM
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I do not matter
If something is wrong it is because of me
People do not like me because I do not deserve friends
I am only here to do what someone may need
If I need something I should not expect help in receiving it
For all purposes I do not exist - unless I am somehow temporarily an asset - I am nothing.
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Old Nov 17, 2015, 06:08 PM
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I know there have been abusers in my life - n I know that's why those are thoughts I battle in the back of my mind all the time. I also know I have been severely triggered and will eventually "get over it" - but that does nothing to soothe me at the moment...
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Old Nov 17, 2015, 06:45 PM
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You both exist.

Otherwise:

1) you couldn't be talking to each other!
2) the many, many people on this site who hold you in their hearts and minds gently and supportive-ly would be doing so to figments of their imagination. While some may (unfortunately) experience delusions - not ALL of us do!

Sending loving, good thoughts to you both.
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Old Nov 17, 2015, 06:46 PM
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Old Nov 17, 2015, 08:45 PM
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Old Nov 17, 2015, 09:22 PM
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Old Nov 17, 2015, 09:24 PM
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Old Nov 17, 2015, 11:31 PM
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Crypts_Of_The_Mind,

In my short interaction with you I found you to be a wonderful person.
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Old Nov 18, 2015, 09:42 AM
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I do not matter

If something is wrong it is because of me

People do not like me because I do not deserve friends

I am only here to do what someone may need

If I need something I should not expect help in receiving it

For all purposes I do not exist - unless I am somehow temporarily an asset - I am nothing.

I totally understand what you are saying here, I feel like this all the time. I have survived physical, emotional and sexual abuse my whole life. The physical and sexual is over tho the emotional continues on a daily basis from inside and outside of the body.



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Old Nov 18, 2015, 11:01 AM
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I totally understand what you are saying here, I feel like this all the time. I have survived physical, emotional and sexual abuse my whole life. The physical and sexual is over tho the emotional continues on a daily basis from inside and outside of the body.



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Old Nov 18, 2015, 12:26 PM
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Crypts you are a worthy and worthwhile human being. Sending you love and light.
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Old Nov 18, 2015, 05:55 PM
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Crypts you are a worthy and worthwhile human being. Sending you love and light.
Thank you mountain- that means a lot
I don't remember if you were in chat when I abruptly left last night - if so, this was why - and I apologize.
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Old Nov 18, 2015, 05:59 PM
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Crypts_Of_The_Mind,

In my short interaction with you I found you to be a wonderful person.
Thank you, where - it means a lot. I truly don't remember who was and who was not in chat last night when I abruptly left. If you were there-this was why and I apologize.
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Old Nov 18, 2015, 10:30 PM
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I don't remember if I was in chat when what you left. But many people leave chat abruptly and suddenly, so I don't consider it an insult or an issue.
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Old Nov 18, 2015, 11:52 PM
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I don't remember if I was in chat when what you left. But many people leave chat abruptly and suddenly, so I don't consider it an insult or an issue.
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Old Nov 20, 2015, 08:30 PM
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Also, sometimes people feel stressed and leave chat immediately without saying goodbye. Nothing to worry about or apologize for.
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Old Nov 20, 2015, 09:30 PM
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Also, sometimes people feel stressed and leave chat immediately without saying goodbye. Nothing to worry about or apologize for.
No - this particular day was a day I said something just before I left.
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