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Old Nov 03, 2015, 10:02 PM
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Straight up, I just lied to my Bestfriend... He's dating my good friend and I'm scared of loosing him again.. I meant to send a message to her but actually sent it to him... He is so mad at me... I'm crying so much. He told me a while ago he loved me like a sister and so I annoy him like a sister would and he'll always be there but now I lied to him.... He's never been more pissed at me.. I said "I swear on my life im so sorry" he said.. You can't swear on something that means nothing to you... I will never gain his trust back... Or fix this... I want to just sleep until it all gets better. I screwed up so bad
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Old Nov 03, 2015, 10:20 PM
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xx_tpm-life_xx Hope you feel better soon...
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Old Nov 05, 2015, 05:20 AM
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Just be honest with him. Was the text regarding their relationship?
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Old Nov 05, 2015, 09:42 AM
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Just be honest with him. Was the text regarding their relationship?
We are just friends, but I told his gf to not send the screenshots of a message that someone was talking about my crush... I accidentally told him instead of her.
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Old Nov 05, 2015, 11:26 PM
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We are just friends, but I told his gf to not send the screenshots of a message that someone was talking about my crush... I accidentally told him instead of her.

Was the crush on him? I am a bit confused. Why would he get angry if the txt was not about him?

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Old Nov 06, 2015, 05:41 AM
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Was the crush on him? I am a bit confused. Why would he get angry if the txt was not about him?

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He's upset Bc he doesn't like the guy I have a crush on
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Old Nov 06, 2015, 07:17 AM
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It sounds to me that maybe he likes you more than he is saying?

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Old Nov 06, 2015, 11:35 AM
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I seem to screw everything up too. Recently screwed up a very good friendship and almost destroyed my marriage.
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Old Nov 06, 2015, 02:35 PM
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So you were lying to him because he doesn't like the guy you have a crush on? Geeze, so what? If he's that mad about it, there is something else going on. Stop blaming yourself.
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Old Nov 06, 2015, 03:05 PM
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I seem to screw everything up too. Recently screwed up a very good friendship and almost destroyed my marriage.
awe! I'm sorry!
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Old Nov 06, 2015, 03:06 PM
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So you were lying to him because he doesn't like the guy you have a crush on? Geeze, so what? If he's that mad about it, there is something else going on. Stop blaming yourself.
Yes^ and you really think so? I hope lol
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Old Nov 07, 2015, 09:42 AM
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awe! I'm sorry!
Thank you. I always seem to have to learn things the hard way.

And it sounds to me like he has other feelings for you if he's this upset about your crush.
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