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Old Feb 20, 2016, 02:55 PM
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I've been burnt so many times by "life"

But I haven't lost the ability to love or to reach out to (in some "small" way) maybe help someone.

I miss the someone who completely disappeared who said my feelings are precious, not something to be "squashed, silenced and ashamed of aka the Toxic Family of origin

(This is not about anyone on PC)
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Old Feb 20, 2016, 03:24 PM
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Hi Fuzzy,

And it's down to the amazing person you are, to still have the ability to love despite...........
As for the reaching out to help someone...........well I'm sure lots of us on here, at least, know so clearly and deeply appreciate how caring, considerate and sensitive you are towards others
So another big kudos from me!!

And I'm both glad that you at least had that person in your life, and sorry you lost them
But it is really good that you've held onto what they said
"my feelings are precious, not something to be "squashed, silenced and ashamed of", I would absolutely agree with what they told you too



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Old Feb 20, 2016, 03:31 PM
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I've been burnt so many times by "life"

But I haven't lost the ability to love or to reach out to (in some "small" way) maybe help someone.

I miss the someone who completely disappeared who said my feelings are precious, not something to be "squashed, silenced and ashamed of aka the Toxic Family of origin

(This is not about anyone on PC)
"burnt so many times by life". I feel the same way, the last couple of months have been terrible. I have been reminded yet again you can't change other people much and fortune has a lot to do with how our lives turn out.
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Old Feb 20, 2016, 03:32 PM
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Hi fuzzy, big hugs to you . life is so hard , I'm here for you , pm me any time

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Old Feb 20, 2016, 04:37 PM
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The Skeezyks was also burned... but then he turned around & flamed everyone who reached out for him...
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Old Feb 20, 2016, 08:59 PM
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Hi Fuzzybear I love how sharing and loving you are. It was a bright joy for me to see you here. I am having a very difficult time sharing positive thoughts on PC and you inspire me. That's what I came back here for because I think sharing positive things helped me out of my negativity in the past and I was hoping to find the same now... But I've been struggling but you've been an inspiration that has been helping me greatly.

So thank you for that.

I hope you can see that your ability to love when you are suffering is an anchor to who you really are, not who depression might tell you bad things. I think we at PC all see that and I only hope that our love and support helps keep you afloat but it is your internal anchor that is the source of your strength.
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Old Feb 20, 2016, 10:09 PM
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my feelings are precious, not something to be "squashed, silenced and ashamed of
Agreed. You and your feelings are precious.

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Old Feb 20, 2016, 10:23 PM
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I can definitely relate. I'm at a point where I congratulated myself for getting through the day. It was enough. Do your best. Every day there is a chance for change. A small thing can lift your mood.
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