[Newemail]

Hi
I just noticed that ive depression and according to many quizez its a severe depressio .. i didnt check with a doctor because im from a country who doesnt understand psychological issues and they only thing if you want such a doctor you are crazy so im trying to find help online .

So ive this issue of not enjoying anything , im just bored all the time , always tired , lost interest in almost of everything .

I got engaged early this year and i really wanna be happy with all the new wedding details and everythimg but im not and i feel like im causing my fiance sadness because of what i do he thinks i never appreciate anything or enjoy anything .

I need help please i wanna know how to deal with this because i think im really sick

[basicgoodness]

How long have you been feeling this way? Getting married can be very stressful and could cause some depression. I got depressed when I got married because I thought it might have been a big mistake. (I'm still married 24 years later). When things settle down, you may feel better. But in any event, you may need some professional help. It might be a good idea to talk to your regular doctor as a first step.

[Newemail]

Originally Posted by basicgoodness

How long have you been feeling this way? Getting married can be very stressful and could cause some depression. I got depressed when I got married because I thought it might have been a big mistake. (I'm still married 24 years later). When things settle down, you may feel better. But in any event, you may need some professional help. It might be a good idea to talk to your regular doctor as a first step.

Hey dear thanks for your reply ive been feeling the same way for a long time now even before the engagement and everything and yes i feel like im scared i might have chose wrong and we are totally different and maybe things will go bad .

Im very stressed and just need help how to overcome this .. but professional help here is kind of rare ao thats why im looking online

[basicgoodness]

Your location says New York, but it sounds like you are not in the U.S. I hope you find some help and comfort on this site. It has helped me a lot.

[Newemail]

Originally Posted by basicgoodness

Your location says New York, but it sounds like you are not in the U.S. I hope you find some help and comfort on this site. It has helped me a lot.

Yes im not in the us i added ny just for the postal code required .. i hope i can find help im in extreme need for it

[qwerty68]

It sounds like the issue is that getting labelled with a mental disorder is frowned upon in your society. I am basing this response on that assumption.

I have no idea what it is like in your country but if the help exists, take it! Don't worry about stigmas or anything else. What good does it do take make people think you are okay when you are suffering? You health and well-being are far more important than outside influences. Do medical privacy laws exist in your country?

Online help, including live chats can be very beneficial, but in my opinion aren't a proper substitute for professional help. This board and other places can certainly augment therapy.

[Yzen]

There are online therapists. I have never tried one and I am not sure if many work internationally. I remember one site called Breakthrough....there are others.