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Everything seems not to be going my way. I seemed to somehow messed everything up again and it's creeped up on me right about now just want to hide and give up.
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#2
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Sorry Mindinpieces. Hiding is not optimal but if it is what you need to do right now to stay OK then that what you should do. It is a better option than giving up. Please do not give up. Fighting depression is strenuous if you need to hide for a bit to regroup consider it a tool to help cope. Hope you won't hide from PsychCentral... We understand.
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#3
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At moment I'm not hiding but in past I have like I would never leave the flat in months that how come I got 2 year employment gap. I am going to finish my last two exam of university next week, even though I will probably fail I'm hoping I would get enough marks to get into next year of university, I going to see mental health advisor as well go talk about how I have slacked off this year and got myself into pickle over work. I'm looking for summer job and failed one interview already. Thing is I got interview next week on Friday but I've applied to same company before and failed interview do scared I will fail again. I'm scared for summer I won't be able to get job and be unemployed which mean depression will creep back also I've I have failed this year of university and don't get back into next year then I nd stuffed again unemployed and failure.
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#4
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When I go for an interview, I'm interviewing the employer as well. I've gone for interviews, asked my own questions and left thinking "Nope, not for me!"
When I view interviews in that way, it reduces my anxiety of being interviewed. It goes both ways. It has to be a good fit for both me and the employer. The interviewing process can be stressful but I take it as a learning experience. If I had no clue what to answer for a specific question or think my answer was weak, I think of something better for the next time. There's always the same questions that keep coming back so I focus on those. The others, I answer to the best of my knowledge. As for the exams, you haven't failed yet. Give it your best shot! You can do this. |
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Starting to think of cancelling my interview I've been to interview more than once with this employer and failed each time, is it worth going through that again?
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I'm not going to cancel interview but don't really want to go, it's going to be stressful but guess got to give it a go
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So had interviews they went ok not great but got two more Monday and my stress levels and anxiety is up
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