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Old Aug 22, 2016, 12:14 PM
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I only had one more semester to go of college until I ran out of funds. My mom put me out this year because of a fight I had with my sister. My sister has been able to stay in the house and I overheard my mother saying that my sister has always been her favorite despite sister calling her a *****.

I am only 24 years old but being ignored has increasingly made me feel upset (especially by family and being bullied by peers, etc.) When I went to stay with my father, I tried not to let years of pent up anger ruin my reputation with his side of the family but it was too late. Not only am I not accepted because of being gay, he has called me a stupid heifer, a ****** and a sl*ut. I have also been judged heavily by uncles and aunts and grandmother on this side.

I feel bad staying at father's house because I don't like the way I'm being treated yet I don't want to go to a shelter and stay stuck with my minimum wage job and never have the chance to finish school.

Should I stay and pretend like all is well or leave and become permanently homeless?
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Old Aug 22, 2016, 12:56 PM
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I would leave, but this is me. I really don't know what is best for you. I wish you peace to make the best decision
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Old Aug 22, 2016, 01:35 PM
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Leaving would be best --- You need some positive space...(((((((((((((&lots of hugs))))))))))) so, if you can.........................
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Old Aug 22, 2016, 02:14 PM
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Old Aug 22, 2016, 02:28 PM
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Have you thought about renting a room? That's what I did and I'm so thankful for it. The rent is different depending on where you are. Mine is 400-600 dollars. It you can rent an apartment with friends. I would stay until I made other plans. But only use the house to sleep.

Work as much as you can (what I did) even two jobs on your break times from school.

Thats what I did stay out the house as much as possible (for your mental health)
Thanks for this!
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Old Aug 22, 2016, 08:05 PM
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Make a viable/realistic plan. Great suggestions above.

Will you feel safe and/or settled in a shelter type of atmosphere?
Probably not.

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