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Sep 04, 2016, 01:14 PM
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My recent ex boyfriend lives 2hrs away. He called and talked about moving into a new place. He will get all of his stuff and his wonderful pug by the end of September. I had to hold back tears while at a restaurant, since he was talking about moving physically and emotionally. He asked if he could come visit. It was so hard for me but I said no...he would just do what he always does: list all my flaws and mistakes which makes me upset. He now gets mad when I cry so I saw no reason for him to visit. I'm now crying and hurting.. he broke my heart. I don't deserve this...my life is shot.
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 Always Hurting, Fuzzybear, Marla500, Skeezyks, Yours_Truly
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#2
Sep 04, 2016, 01:17 PM
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Deeply it was very strong of you to say "no".
I know it is causing a lot of pain but the "no" says that you are still able to take care of yourself and that is the main ingredient that will get you through this.
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Sep 04, 2016, 01:46 PM
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Sep 04, 2016, 01:46 PM
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He always lists your "flaws" and mistakes. He sounds like a jerk. You deserve so much better (what about his flaws and ...)
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Sep 04, 2016, 02:52 PM
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I know it hurts and it's painful, but you too are moving on. You're moving away from someone who treats you like dirt. It's not your fault; it's his for trying to make you into somebody he wanted. I do hope you heal in time and be well.
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| Yours_Truly
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Sep 04, 2016, 03:49 PM
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I don't know you, but am proud of you for having the courage and strength to say 'no' to him, as much pain as it is causing you. Remember, you need to take care of YOU, not him.
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Dx: BP2 and MDD Current meds: 100mg Wellbutrin; 200mg Lamictal; 400mg Seroquel at night; Xanax 1mg/PRN; 100mg/PRN Trazodone at night for insomnia Diagnosed in May 2016 |
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Sep 05, 2016, 08:53 PM
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I am so impressed that you said no to him and his abuse. It may hurt now but think how much more it would hurt if he had yet another opportunity to tear you down/
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| Yours_Truly
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