[MtnTime2896]

To be more specific; when are confronted and asked how we're doing (I mean they know something's up), why do we say stuff like, "I'm fine", "Just a little stressed" or "I'm good. How are you?" (just abruptly change the subject)?

[Aardwolf]

It would vary between people I imagine... It could me multiple things, however I think the main ones are:
Stigma and social "norms". The vulnerable feeling if someone knows.. For me ? It's easier for me not to say it as I actually feel more stressed and anxious if more people know how I actually feel ! It's a very private thing for me.

I don't know about you, but I am very, very, specific about who knows the "true" me.. everyone else see's me as a happy person with no worries !

[MtnTime2896]

Originally Posted by ACQPL

I don't know about you, but I am very, very, specific about who knows the "true" me.. everyone else see's me as a happy person with no worries !

I'm really selective, as well.
Thank you for sharing.

[Fuzzybear]

Unfortunately I agree with the above, there is still plenty of stigma and misinformation regarding depression and other mental health issues... I too have used the line "a little stressed" or something similar. It stinks to be open and vulnerable and then be judged.. Often few people are worthy of our trust

[Humpty Dumpty]

Because most often when asked they don't really care or want to know. All they want to hear is "I'm fine."